vonbock
Senior Don Juan
I have been dating this girl and I have been gettingless and less trustful of her becuase of 2 reason and I wanted to know what you all think.
1. I have been dating for 2-3 years and whenever we go to a party, some other guys who have gf's or married start talking with her. Then they tell her that hey "Why don't you and your sisters come out with us, we'll give you a call". They don't even talk to me. I tell her that its rude for her to give her number to guys in front of me and she says that she is only doing this so she can find guys for her sisters. I tell her that hey, if the guy is classy, why don't she tell him to "Get my b/f's number and call him when you do something" She responds back, "I know you, you don't like going anywhere and you are selfish for not helping out my sisters" IS this rude or am I overanlyzing.
2. When we first met, she emphasized that she only had 1 boyfriend in her life, she is homey and conservative. Now one by one, I find out from other people that she was with this guy, another guy, etc. Then I find out that she even lived with another guy for a year. I am not upset that she was with other guys, but I am upset that she lies about having only one boyfriend and I get to find out about all the others from other people. I did confront her with other 2, but she said that she was just hanging out with them and didn't do anything. Should I be upset for her lying?
1. I have been dating for 2-3 years and whenever we go to a party, some other guys who have gf's or married start talking with her. Then they tell her that hey "Why don't you and your sisters come out with us, we'll give you a call". They don't even talk to me. I tell her that its rude for her to give her number to guys in front of me and she says that she is only doing this so she can find guys for her sisters. I tell her that hey, if the guy is classy, why don't she tell him to "Get my b/f's number and call him when you do something" She responds back, "I know you, you don't like going anywhere and you are selfish for not helping out my sisters" IS this rude or am I overanlyzing.
2. When we first met, she emphasized that she only had 1 boyfriend in her life, she is homey and conservative. Now one by one, I find out from other people that she was with this guy, another guy, etc. Then I find out that she even lived with another guy for a year. I am not upset that she was with other guys, but I am upset that she lies about having only one boyfriend and I get to find out about all the others from other people. I did confront her with other 2, but she said that she was just hanging out with them and didn't do anything. Should I be upset for her lying?