is this girl playing me or what!

[bcdefxyz2000]

im an attractive guy, get the gals easily, and im at the football game yesterday ya know, and im talkign to this girl i like, and things are goign good, im making her laugh a lot, good convo, kino, good eye contact. all positive signs of interest. well later on at our homecomming dance they played some fast songs, adn we were dancing by each other getting some GOOD kino. no one at my school does any real grinding stuff, so the dances are kinda corny(VERY SMALL SCHOOL! )

well like the second or third slow song i figured id ask her to dance casue she was really checkign me out the dance before when i was with another girl, well i go up to her and get her and tell her to come dance, well im thinking no way in hell she would turn me down. it didnt even cross my mind. WELL, she said she was going to go sit down. i though she was just sayign that so i still walked with her onto the floor but she just said it again. this girl who i know has interest in me, and she turns me down like nothing, but the thing that really pist me off is that about a minute later she was dancing with another guy! well t the end of the dance she was right by me the nanother slow song came on,
so i was like, WTF! she just like shrugged i dont remeber what she said. well i said les dance and she was liek, i need to dacne with o and so. well i find another girl, and well later on i nthe dance another slow song, well i only see her without a partner, so i figured i wonder what shes gona do this time especting the same i got before, well i go up to her and this gay guy i hate (annoying dork type)comes up right after i get her, and she liek just started dancign with him, leavign me there! so i go find another girl

she said she was commign to my party afterwards that everyone was goign to but she dint come. everyone else did though so it was fun. but i mean a girl wouldnt turn you down liek that is she didnt liek you, unless they are the spawn of saitin or soemthing along thsoe lines. and im not the guy the girls dance wit hto be polite, trust me. but we were really hitting it off the whole night before i asked her to dance..lol and why she wouldnt dance wit hme.. I HAVE NO FREAKING CLUE. i think back on it and its liek why wouldnt she dance with me. the only thing i know ios that i think my friend may have said soemthign about me havign interest in her. so she may feel liek she has me wrapedaround her finger now, but i honestly dont wantto be played liek that. i never thought of her as the person who would do that though. what do you all thing? and what shoudl i do.

 

[ReTiCuLeX]

Ahh, sounds a lil similar to my situation. I say it's a bit similar as the girl I was talking to and seemed like she had some real interest in me had gave me excuses of working all weekend and couldn't take time to go out with me on a date. Anyhow, I honestly think this girl saw that you had interest in her and played it off like "you look good etc, but I can mingle as well with others I can get lots of guys too" from here on next time you see her, don't approach her with a convo, let her do the approaching and possibly and apoligy for not dancing with you. Make it seem like you are god, you had your chance to dance with me how are you going to make it up to me biotch? If this doesn't work well then maybe someone else can give you some better advice.

- ReT

 

[bud_2005]

My opinion:

You tried way too hard. If she rejects you once don't keep trying man.

 

[cant think of a user name]

I agree with the previous posters: you tried too hard! I know you got an interest in her but you kept approaching and approaching after she turned you down, and that's not really a good thing.

I suggest you just play it cool, dont be desperate - and anyway it sounds like you have LOTS of options, why not go after somebody else?

 

[Cloud-uk]

I disagree. Think about it. There are millions of girls out there who are using "dating techniques" just like we are. They get it from girl's mags and ****, but they've still got the same stuff, just for the other way around.

I've encountered this a few times before, its when a less that perfect DJ meets a less than perfect Female"DJ". He plays the C&F line, but not quite perfect, and she plays hard to get, but not quite perfect. It ends up with two people likeing each other but both playing their own separate games.

Now this may well not be the case, but a bit of persistance never hurt anyone. If you want to try it a bit more try breaking the rules a bit... the object here is not to make a point, but to get *****. Just take her out on a straight out date or something, whatever you do where you are. Get some of that connection and kino ina private place. Personally, I'd drop in the hint that playing hard to get will only piss you off and leave her alone.

Just a thought.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Would it kill to spell check? Anyways this is too weird for me...

well i go up to her and get her and tell her to come dance, well im thinking no way in hell she would turn me down. it didnt even cross my mind. WELL, she said she was going to go sit down. i though she was just sayign that so i still walked with her onto the floor but she just said it again. this girl who i know has interest in me, and she turns me down like nothing, but the thing that really pist me off is that about a minute later she was dancing with another guy!

Anyways, that EXACT same thing happened to me a while back, 'cept it was my one-itis, I was f@cking crushed.

the only thing i know ios that i think my friend may have said soemthign about me havign interest in her. so she may feel liek she has me wrapedaround her finger now, but i honestly dont wantto be played liek that. i never thought of her as the person who would do that though. what do you all thing? and what shoudl i do.

Same here, they might have said something bad about me to go along with it. The only advice I can give you is to try and DJ her,and gauge her reactions, don't just give up on the chick. Some people take dances as somethnig intimate, while others think of it as nothing more than social interaction.

 

[bcdefxyz2000]

well i wasnt mad i was just confused as hell,. it was pretty obvious she was playing hard to get once i though about it. i was mad at the way i handled the situation though. i got her where i want her now. i turned it around, i DJd all the chicks today, and i didnt acknowledge her existence and she was getting frustrated. she was tryign to make small talk all day, and she was always checking me out, so ill keep this up and ill see what she has to say soon. i gave her a piece of her own shyt and it feels great to have the power back!