Is This Girl Playing Games?

[cardell]

I approached this girl I had a crush on, but I didn't let her know. I asked if she had a boyfriend and she said yes. I was bit let down but I moved passed it and started to find other options. We eventually became friends and I became friends with her best friends. One day she saw one of her friends give me a big hug and she came over and said "no, no", and pushed her out the way and gave me a big hug. I was thinking to myself "hmm she's jealous." Some of her friends have told me that she likes me, she gets nervous when I talk to her and thinks i'm handsome. I told her that i find her attractive and i have a crush on her but because you have a boyfriend, i won't get in between that.

She said "don't give up hope too fast, you never know what will happen in the future." But i'm not waiting around for her to break up with her boyfriend. I also told her that i'm moving away from home to live in Los Angeles, she said she wanted me to stay and not leave. She said she's going to always wonder if i leave will i get married or have a child. Ladies, why is this girl soo concerned about me in this way while she is in a relationship?

 

[CMNILS87]

@LOA. Bingo

Last time I had a crush was high school. I just find women attractive or not.

1. She likes attention from you. "Maybe" thinks you're handsome and you're a plan B. You told her you like her so she's got her hooks in you already.

2. shes telling you not to move away and follow your dreams= "are you dumb enough to listen to me so I can keep you on the chain for 5 years while I bang douches".

She's a crazy manipulator. Flip it on end and let her see you flirting up a storm with other chicks like you were.

 

[RangerMIke]

I approached this girl I had a crush on, but I didn't let her know.

You don't have to tell her, she already knew you liked her.

I asked if she had a boyfriend and she said yes.

Never ask... let her tell you.

I was bit let down but I moved passed it and started to find other options.

Good.

We eventually became friends and I became friends with her best friends.

Not good.

One day she saw one of her friends give me a big hug and she came over and said "no, no", and pushed her out the way and gave me a big hug. I was thinking to myself "hmm she's jealous." Some of her friends have told me that she likes me, she gets nervous when I talk to her and thinks i'm handsome.

Okay... here is a lesson... women never tell you anything that might help you... only what might help them. This is why you always get bad relationship advice from women. What possible good will it do for this women to tell or do something to help you if it does not help her. It benefits her to keep you on a string... if you wander off the reservation how does this benefit her.

I told her that i find her attractive and i have a crush on her but because you have a boyfriend, i won't get in between that. She said "don't give up hope too fast, you never know what will happen in the future."

Translation you are plan B.

But i'm not waiting around for her to break up with her boyfriend. I also told her that i'm moving away from home to live in Los Angeles, she said she wanted me to stay and not leave. She said she's going to always wonder if i leave will i get married or have a child. Ladies, why is this girl soo concerned about me in this way while she is in a relationship?

She does not care about how you feel... only how you make her feel. You make her feel secure knowing that you'll be there to catch her if she falls. But here is the catch... she will NEVER respect you, and without respect, a women can not love you.

 

[nismo-4]

If she falls, let her ass hit the concrete. Move on, she ain't done sh*t for you, and just wants you around for attention. She doesn't want the role in your play, so find a replacement.

Case closed. You can do better.

 

[om1xr]

there are literally more than 3 and half vagina in this wasteland and you are concerning yourself with a used one anyway. let me ask you this: If you want to get a new t-shirt and you happen to see someone wearing a T-shirt that you liked, would you wait until that person throw that T-shirt and then use it yourself or would you go to the next shop and get 5 better T-shirts? I guess we all know the answer

and in this situation you are just a digit of her backup plans of 0-10 or more

 

[dutchmaster]

basically what every1 else said, yes she is playing games also sounds like a fake manipulative b1tch. No contact her and go game diff girls