I'm a long-time fan of this board and just had a quick rundown I wanted to ask of you hard-core DJs.
There's this girl that I'm interested in at work (we're both interns), although it really seemed she was interested in me first. Originally she came up and introduced herself to me, and every time we talked she'd always hold eye contact, rub my shoulder, drop hints that we should hang out, etc. etc.
So I asked to her a baseball game last week and she said yes. Now, I've seen her at work in dress clothes and she's a cute girl. But when I picked her up, she was rocking a tiny tank-top, tight jeans and makeup, which she never really wore to work, and the outcome was simply amazing. I made a comment about the clothing telling her "I'm feeling the shirt, but why not wear a skirt?".. She giggled and said that she bruised herself, otherwise she would have. I told her to wear once it healed up, and she agreed.
But when we got to the game, she started acting a little flaky. Sometimes when I'd put my arm around her, she'd be responsive and move closer and other times she'd sit straight in her seat, away from my arm. It could be that she had no clue what was going on (she's a foreign exchange student and this was her first exposure to baseball), but I don't really think that should matter.
After the game, she invited me to drinks with her friends, who quite coincidentally, were mostly guys. For the most part, she gave me attention, but she would talk to her guy friends as well. There was one point that she leaned her head on the shoulder of one of her friends and was looking for some reaction from me. She obviously didn't get one, in fact I think I started smiling. But this element of playing games threw me off of my ultimate goal, which was to get some tongue-action going and set a path for me to get the eventual booty. She was getting a ride from her friends, and I had to get home, so I had to leave. I ended up with a hug and a kiss on the cheek, which definitely wasn't the plan.
And now I saw her at work the other day and asked what time she was leaving, and she said she'd be leaving late but she'd give me a call before she left. She never did because she was going "shopping" and not home, but my stupidity did to find out that information.
Now I already can see the signs and the downward spiral that's going on primarily because I started giving this chick too much attention. My plan right now is to pretty much ignore her the rest of the week, go partying this Thu night, get a couple of numbers, keep myself occupied and see if she comes back into line.
What do you guys think I should do? And what preventive methods should I use not to fall in the same trap again? Thanks...
There's this girl that I'm interested in at work (we're both interns), although it really seemed she was interested in me first. Originally she came up and introduced herself to me, and every time we talked she'd always hold eye contact, rub my shoulder, drop hints that we should hang out, etc. etc.
So I asked to her a baseball game last week and she said yes. Now, I've seen her at work in dress clothes and she's a cute girl. But when I picked her up, she was rocking a tiny tank-top, tight jeans and makeup, which she never really wore to work, and the outcome was simply amazing. I made a comment about the clothing telling her "I'm feeling the shirt, but why not wear a skirt?".. She giggled and said that she bruised herself, otherwise she would have. I told her to wear once it healed up, and she agreed.
But when we got to the game, she started acting a little flaky. Sometimes when I'd put my arm around her, she'd be responsive and move closer and other times she'd sit straight in her seat, away from my arm. It could be that she had no clue what was going on (she's a foreign exchange student and this was her first exposure to baseball), but I don't really think that should matter.
After the game, she invited me to drinks with her friends, who quite coincidentally, were mostly guys. For the most part, she gave me attention, but she would talk to her guy friends as well. There was one point that she leaned her head on the shoulder of one of her friends and was looking for some reaction from me. She obviously didn't get one, in fact I think I started smiling. But this element of playing games threw me off of my ultimate goal, which was to get some tongue-action going and set a path for me to get the eventual booty. She was getting a ride from her friends, and I had to get home, so I had to leave. I ended up with a hug and a kiss on the cheek, which definitely wasn't the plan.
And now I saw her at work the other day and asked what time she was leaving, and she said she'd be leaving late but she'd give me a call before she left. She never did because she was going "shopping" and not home, but my stupidity did to find out that information.
Now I already can see the signs and the downward spiral that's going on primarily because I started giving this chick too much attention. My plan right now is to pretty much ignore her the rest of the week, go partying this Thu night, get a couple of numbers, keep myself occupied and see if she comes back into line.
What do you guys think I should do? And what preventive methods should I use not to fall in the same trap again? Thanks...
