Is this an excuse or not?

[mahon83050]

I aksed a girl out for a second date she said it sounds great..I asked her out for next week, but then she says in the next two weeks she has four papers due and she cannot. I thought if a chick has high IL or IL, she will make time for you.

BTW, after our first date she called me and said what a nice date I was. Help, I am confused.

 

[comic_relief]

uh... I think if I had papers due or like that then I would rather do them then go out with that hot girl. Just my opinion.

 

[rgeere]

Reschedule something with her ...

 

[Dominant]

General rule with women is not give a damn what they think.

Who knows what she's thinking, honestly. It can range from actually concentrating on the papers to her boning some other dude without you knowing.

Both are very real possibilities.

You guys aren't together, go find other women.

Oh yeah, and don't take her resistance to see you personally. She's just being retarded.

I mean two whole weeks? She expects you to wait two weeks to see her again? Please, she can spare two hours to kick it.

1. Don't care what's going on in her head.
2. Don't take it personally.
3. Find other women (if you can't do this, then you have bigger problems to deal with).
4. Always have more than one girl.

Take it easy,
Dominant

 

[wjh]

Originally posted by Dominant
General rule with women is not give a damn what they think.

Who knows what she's thinking, honestly. It can range from actually concentrating on the papers to her boning some other dude without you knowing.

Both are very real possibilities.

You guys aren't together, go find other women.

Oh yeah, and don't take her resistance to see you personally. She's just being retarded.

I mean two whole weeks? She expects you to wait two weeks to see her again? Please, she can spare two hours to kick it.

1. Don't care what's going on in her head.
2. Don't take it personally.
3. Find other women (if you can't do this, then you have bigger problems to deal with).
4. Always have more than one girl.

Take it easy,
Dominant

:werd:

And stay positive.

 

[AMF]

Originally posted by Dominant
General rule with women is not give a damn what they think.

Who knows what she's thinking, honestly. It can range from actually concentrating on the papers to her boning some other dude without you knowing.

Both are very real possibilities.

You guys aren't together, go find other women.

Oh yeah, and don't take her resistance to see you personally. She's just being retarded.

I mean two whole weeks? She expects you to wait two weeks to see her again? Please, she can spare two hours to kick it.

1. Don't care what's going on in her head.
2. Don't take it personally.
3. Find other women (if you can't do this, then you have bigger problems to deal with).
4. Always have more than one girl.

Take it easy,
Dominant

Whats this, a man back on the board? True.

 

[flexion_]

Did she give you a counter offer?

I would give her a call in a few weeks...

 

[mahon83050]

Yea she did, maybe after two weeks she said. It is tough to say whether it is an excuse or not. Thing is, do I bring it up again in two weeks or do I wait for her to mention it.

 

[wjh]

don't bring it up, live your life. if she doesn't mention it, she's not interested. if she said it and meant it, she won't forget.

 

[Kaine]

You've had ONE date

Don't expect much unless you came off as prince fcking charming. or are actually in a relationship with her.

Don't overanalyse

Give her the benefit of the doubt, if she gives another lame excuse after that then let her go.

Meanwhile feel free to date other girls


Kaine