Is this AFC behavior or a mark of a true DJ

[violator]

I was wondering whether it is AFC or DJ behavior when you see a girl who you have gone out with but you know or suspect is just an attention wh0re and ignore her.

Background: Last Saturday, I went out to a club and saw this girl I briefly dated who I have not seen in over a year. This girl is smoking hot and knows it. She would rate a 9.2 mainly because of her body. About a year ago, I dated her a few times, but noticed a few red flags and ditched her. That caused her to chase me for a while, but the challenge wore off and I have not seen or spoken to her since then.

Well, low and behold I see her at the club with her equally hot friend strutting around with their typical attention wh0re behavior trying to get all the attention. I know she recognizes me because I see her giving me brief glances here and there and she would occassionaly stand close to where I was perhaps hoping that I would talk to her. However, I did not fall into that trap and pretty much ignored her all night while a horde of guys were falling all over themselves trying to mack her and her friend.

In the end, some average looking chump kept buying her and her friend drinks and I guess it worked because they ended up leaving with this guy.

Did I do the right thing? Did she end up respecting me more or maybe she thought I was a wuss for ignoring her and not talking to her. I feel that it is better to end things on a high note with your dignity in place, but sometimes I wonder whether maybe this girl was genuinely interested in me and that I missed out by not talking to her.

Any comments? Similar situations?

 

[violator]

bump.

 

[MVPlaya]

Is You Is Or Is You Ain't?

What are you attempting to go for here? I think the question is slightly AFC.

Look, either you're interested, or you're not, here's how you did in respect to both possibilities:

1.) You're Interested: Not too good. You didn't fall head over heels with her so she understands you are not some random chump out there, but you did bad because you COMPLETELY ignored her. Ganji, btw., is to be used on a girl you are currently seeing, not saw 1 yr ago. The girl got a clue from you that you were not interested. You ignored her completely. The trick to DJing is flirt a little, then move back, then flirt a little, then move back. This way, she understands there is some possibility for a relationship, but when you move back, she sees she has to do some major work. By following this trick skillfully you can get her IL real high. However, by just plain up ignoring her, you did yourself a disfavor.

2.) You Are Not Interested: In this case, who cares what she thinks? Why would you give a sh!t, she's not an issue. NeXt!

 

[crackhead]

I don't think acknowledging her presence and talking to her would have been stooping or compromising your dignity.

If she was that hot, I woulda probably said Hi and tried to play like yea you're hot and I would **** the crap out of you, but I aint about to sweat you like the rest of these scrubs. But I feel you, you wanted HER to be the one to initiate.

 

[NewMan]

Did I do the right thing? Did she end up respecting me more or maybe she thought I was a wuss for ignoring her and not talking to her. I feel that it is better to end things on a high note with your dignity in place, but sometimes I wonder whether maybe this girl was genuinely interested in me and that I missed out by not talking to her.

Thats fvcking AFC if I ever saw it.

i thought you were not interested? make your mind up.

By the sound of it you ARE interested - otherwise why this post?

who gives a sh#t what she thinks - You should only care about YOU.... don't waste your time thinking about this attention hoe.

 

[violator]

You guys are right. The question is slightly AFC.

To be honest, I don't give a fyck about this chick. When I saw her, she looked freaking hot and I was tempted to mack her to get some play, but then realized there was a reason I ditched her in the first place, so I did not proceed as initially planned.

Things were not a complete loss, because I scored with another girl (HB 7.5) that night.


I guess next time I find myself in a similar situation and decide I want some action, I would not completely ignore the girl. Acknowledge her existience, but not hang on to her like the other chumps. Sort of use her as a pivot between other girls you are macking and take advantage of the social proof.

Thanks guys for your input.

 

[THA REALNESS]

Nah *****es are like that ,You did the right thing i would of just said "hi" if i bumped into her or adknowledge her prescence but i would just kept it like that.