Is this a sign of jealousy/interest by a girl?

horus

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OK, a I met up recently with a girl that I sort of had a thing with a couple of months ago, made a move, but eventually got LJBFd.

I was going away on holiday a couple of days later (to a country which I visit often that is filled with extremely hot women and many of these hot chics are friends of mine, I use them for serious social proof). I have introduced her to a few of them before (they still live there) and she started asking me whether so and so (and started naming their names) were going to be there and whether I will be seeing them or not.

She did a similar line of questioning a couple of months back when I had a huge birthday party and wanted to exactly know which girls I have invited.

This is quite strange. This is the only chic that I know who has asked me questions about other girls who I would be seeing while on holiday and about those coming to my birthday party.

Was she just making conversation "as a friend" or did the "kitty kats compete" theory raise her IL?
 

BGMan

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I think that your hot female friends piqued her interest. When a woman has 50-59% interest level she does things that are often indistinguishable from the actions of a woman who has 40-49% IL (totally not into you). The only way to flush them out is to do things like flaunt other ladies in their presence (like you did) or LJBF them (which I did once), and basically be a Challenge like Doc Love says.

If she gets upset about these other women, you can then say to her, "Hey, what's the big deal? I thought we were just friends!" (of course, keep a big smile on your face while you do this).

BTW, why don't you start dating those other hot chicks? Or are they all married or have boyfriends?

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Starman

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either she is jealous or bixsexual

I know a chick who always asked who my hot lady friends were..later I found out she was bi..
 
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