Is this a red flag?

Raasay

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Cheers for the replies.

Aside from work, she does nothing else. I asked what her hobbies are and she doesn't have any. I suggested maybe join a gym and she said that's not for her. I was texting with her today and she says "I need a cuddle". I didn't reply and the next time I checked my phone there was 5 missed calls, all within a minute. I was blown away.

We spoke on the phone earlier and she says she has got nothing to do and is going to lie in bed. She asked to see me but I have stuff to do and can't get out today.

I don't like the idea of her having no friends or hobbies. She still lives with her parents and is nearly 30. She doesn't seem to have that get up and go that I like in someone. She keeps asking when she is seeing me next and I just said Monday possibly.

Why is she like this?
While I wouldn't consider a girl being attached too you quickly (I see this as normal behavior, but it may depend on region, social conventions etc.) as a red flag these indicators alone are red flags for me: no friends, no hobbies. Combining all of your points I would immediately next her, being polite and gentle of course, no need to hurt her even more.
 
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