Is this a nexting?

[malliotjaune]

Ok i've been working on this girl from work for a week or so, been to lunch a few times (at work), we all went out for drinks after work yesterday and we really get on.

I asked her out twice now and she said no both times but they were because 1) She was seeing her sister for the first time in a while and 2) She plays squash in a league on tuesdays. Now she's out of town for a few days...

Is it worth nexting her? Or do I persevere until I find a night that we're both free?

Cheers guys

 

[Finlay]

Ask her when shes free next, if she not , then u should be able to tell by now if shes playing you for a fool or not.

If she is free sometime, pretend you are not, and say well let take your numbner ill call you one night when i am free, she will love the spontaniety.

 

[willysquared]

If you had more options, you wouldn't have to next her. You could be going out with other girls on the nights that she isn't free. Just something to think about!

 

[RogueWarrior]

If she didn't give you an alternate day/time, revert back to no-communication mode. But if she does, be careful that you don't let her call all the shots for choice of activity or location.