Hi guys,just put in a thread yesturday about this woman I,m seeing going to see her ex in prison for a weekend.Now today she,s telling me that an ex-boyfriend of hers that she still pals around with is asking her to go to New York with him for a day or so from Florida.I don,t recall how long ago they,ve been broken up,and she,s telling me that she,s thinking on going.Now I was at work and didn,t want to get in to a heated discussion on it,but I was furious.Is this a mind game she,s playing to test how far she can push the issue,and if it is can I get some input on how the masters would handle it.I,m just getting fed up with it already and just ready to move on,I don,t need these childish games anymore.Thanks for any and every reply...
is this a game
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RAFCbearfilm
Don Juan
Hey Conan,
This is not a flame but the truth - If you have to say she is visiting old boyfriends in (JAIL?) for the weekend or going away with them for the weekend then she is probably not that interested.
Nothing to me is more of an indicator of low interest than her having sex with someone else.
If you are cool with that then fine, but I have to think by your posting here that you are not so, let it go or move on.
This is not a flame but the truth - If you have to say she is visiting old boyfriends in (JAIL?) for the weekend or going away with them for the weekend then she is probably not that interested.
Nothing to me is more of an indicator of low interest than her having sex with someone else.
If you are cool with that then fine, but I have to think by your posting here that you are not so, let it go or move on.
legolas
Master Don Juan
It may be a test, it may not be. In fact she dosen't even know whether it's a test or not. She's followinmg her emotions, remember? The real question is, if you were furious and didn't let her know, she's gonna assume you're ok with it, and then it becomes a test in her mind, or she gets the impression that you are somewhat needy.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
Why the hell are you with this chick?
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Women have girlfriends and boyfriends. If you're not fukking her, you're her girlfriend.
So I guess the next question should be, "How's it going with all those other women you're seeing at the same time you're 'seeing' this one?"
Options man, options. The only reason this woman is even a blip on your radar is because you don't have other options. Your time would be better spent exploring newer prospects than trying to untangle the head of a woman running around with the "prison crowd."
So I guess the next question should be, "How's it going with all those other women you're seeing at the same time you're 'seeing' this one?"
Options man, options. The only reason this woman is even a blip on your radar is because you don't have other options. Your time would be better spent exploring newer prospects than trying to untangle the head of a woman running around with the "prison crowd."
Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Bad positioning, definitely.
It really IS a game. A football game even. You're the ****in Center who hikes the ball off to her, and you get no action. Really. She's the quarterback with the hand tucked under your nuts, but she makes the calls and gets all the attention when the game's done.
**** THAT.
Take control. And that means... in this case... MOVE ON.
Want another analogy? Here: :kick:
It really IS a game. A football game even. You're the ****in Center who hikes the ball off to her, and you get no action. Really. She's the quarterback with the hand tucked under your nuts, but she makes the calls and gets all the attention when the game's done.
**** THAT.
Take control. And that means... in this case... MOVE ON.
Want another analogy? Here: :kick:
SoCalMike
Senior Don Juan
ex in prison? "visiting" other guys?
Holy sh*t man, run like hell! Seriously, get rid of her ASAP. You don't need this kind of BS.
She sounds like a dirty tramp to me. Trust me, I know this type - she's a wh*re and she wants you to put up with it.
Holy sh*t man, run like hell! Seriously, get rid of her ASAP. You don't need this kind of BS.
She sounds like a dirty tramp to me. Trust me, I know this type - she's a wh*re and she wants you to put up with it.
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
Come on man, find your self-respect.
Find a woman that actually likes you.
Find a woman that actually likes you.