Is there something wrong with me?

[The Master Disaster]

Here is what it is. I'm scared. I get bored. I'm not impressed.

In middle school, I was a geek. I was whiny and complany to say the least. I had a couple friends. None that I hung out with.

In Highschool. I basically did a 180 I became the funniest person at the school (probably in the world No joke). Now in my senior year. I have almost too many people wanting to be my friend. Here is where the scared part comes in. When they say, Oh lets hang out. I'm like RED ALERT. I freeze up and i just have this mental block of ABORT ABORT. So basically I hang out all weekend with friends i'm comfortable with. So I have hundreds of "School friends" and then maybe "ten "good friends." I could have hundreds of "good friends" but there is something in my mind blocking me. I've been getting better about this. I think people know this at school and just try their hardest to hang out with me.

Many people come up to me and say "I bet your fun to hang out with when your drunk." I just shake my head on-the-inside when they say that. I'm a square (No Drugs, No Alcohol).

The Main Problem with women is I charm them to death, but there isn't any goal if you will. No, "Hey look what i won." When girls come over to me and say, I bet you had a fun weekend. It's hard, I portray myself as the man's man, but deep down i'm like i play football in the back yard. Then come inside and play video games. So I sort of come off a deer in headlights saying "It was fun." Then they tell me about how much they drank (As if its some sort of goal). After charming these women and getting them to fall for me, I get bored. To tell you the truth I haven't had a g/f in highschool. All 4 years. I think there is literally something wrong with me. Any thoughts?

 

[Dr. Jim]

J'ai comprehendre les situation.

Same thing here, most of the popularity came from telling jokes/quick-wit. I was on the no drugs and and alcohol/no hanging out. I told people that I didn't do it and instilled it on every single person everywhere then one day- yesterday actually I decided to pull the usual spontaeneous ****. So I went to a party, snuck in and ****, and stole a shot. Literally sneaking in sitting beside some pal from school, totally catching everyone (from school) in the room by surprise.

So there's nothing wrong with you, unless there's something wrong with me... There's something wrong with me, Oh crap OH CRAP I'm A FREAKING DOCTOR!!! :woo:
**** now I'm worried. You're projecting an image of being busy, I think, by not hanging out with them... That's not to say always refuse them... cat and string ****.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by The Master Disaster
Here is what it is. I'm scared. I get bored. I'm not impressed.

In middle school, I was a geek. I was whiny and complany to say the least. I had a couple friends. None that I hung out with.

In Highschool. I basically did a 180 I became the funniest person at the school (probably in the world No joke). Now in my senior year. I have almost too many people wanting to be my friend. Here is where the scared part comes in. When they say, Oh lets hang out. I'm like RED ALERT. I freeze up and i just have this mental block of ABORT ABORT. So basically I hang out all weekend with friends i'm comfortable with. So I have hundreds of "School friends" and then maybe "ten "good friends." I could have hundreds of "good friends" but there is something in my mind blocking me. I've been getting better about this. I think people know this at school and just try their hardest to hang out with me.

Many people come up to me and say "I bet your fun to hang out with when your drunk." I just shake my head on-the-inside when they say that. I'm a square (No Drugs, No Alcohol).

The Main Problem with women is I charm them to death, but there isn't any goal if you will. No, "Hey look what i won." When girls come over to me and say, I bet you had a fun weekend. It's hard, I portray myself as the man's man, but deep down i'm like i play football in the back yard. Then come inside and play video games. So I sort of come off a deer in headlights saying "It was fun." Then they tell me about how much they drank (As if its some sort of goal). After charming these women and getting them to fall for me, I get bored. To tell you the truth I haven't had a g/f in highschool. All 4 years. I think there is literally something wrong with me. Any thoughts?

Why dont you hang out with all these girls you charm? Why dont you hang out with some of these other kids that wanna chill with you? Tell them that you dont drink instead of seemingly seeming ashamed or embarressed. You may charm these girls but when do you get to know them? Without depth there really isnt much. It kinda sounds like youre afraid to hang out with other people that youre not comfortable with outside of school cause they might not see you the same way. If youre charismatic as you say there shouldnt be a problem. Maybe you need to start drinking. Soooooo many kids from my high school said that sh*t, then they suddenly started getting hammered every weekend.

 

[Docs]

I think it's because the OR feels he is not interesting enough for them. He gives off one image of being this wickly exciting guy, but he feels that if they hung out with him, that they'll be disappointed.

Looking at what he put for how other people spent their weekends, it appears that we are dealing with the popular party-type crowd. I take understanding to that, I know that that crowd wouldn't be willfully interested in backyard football. Basically, it's the group of people you either fit in with, or don't. The OR lies on the outside of this group.

What I'd suggest, is to keep your ways. They seem to not be really doubting your weekends that much. Besides, it's High School, and you have lots of friends. Just let life develop.

 

[The Master Disaster]

Originally posted by Docs
I think it's because the OR feels he is not interesting enough for them. He gives off one image of being this wickly exciting guy, but he feels that if they hung out with him, that they'll be disappointed.

I think you hit it. I didn't even realize that. When i'm at school I'm on 24 hrs a day. People come to me in the halls say "your such a funny guy, wanna hang out." It takes so much work to make all my class including teachers love me. I mean when I get home school and hanging out with friends. I just crash. Boom I'm out. When i'm on the weekends, I'm On but not completely on. I don't have to be completely on with them. I thank you for diagnosing my problem.

 

[The Master Disaster]

Re: Re: Is there something wrong with me?

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Why dont you hang out with all these girls you charm? Why dont you hang out with some of these other kids that wanna chill with you? Tell them that you dont drink instead of seemingly seeming ashamed or embarressed. You may charm these girls but when do you get to know them? Without depth there really isnt much. It kinda sounds like youre afraid to hang out with other people that youre not comfortable with outside of school cause they might not see you the same way. If youre charismatic as you say there shouldnt be a problem. Maybe you need to start drinking. Soooooo many kids from my high school said that sh*t, then they suddenly started getting hammered every weekend.

the problem is that these girls I charm become so boring to me. They seem to have to prove something to me like "I drink all weekend." I mean I get so bored and so sick of these girls. Its almost they're all on a mission to be complete sluts (*****s, get around the town). So I just end up moving on. I just haven't found a girl who holds the same morals as I do.

 

[The Master Disaster]

Re: Re: Is there something wrong with me?

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Why dont you hang out with all these girls you charm? Why dont you hang out with some of these other kids that wanna chill with you? Tell them that you dont drink instead of seemingly seeming ashamed or embarressed. You may charm these girls but when do you get to know them? Without depth there really isnt much. It kinda sounds like youre afraid to hang out with other people that youre not comfortable with outside of school cause they might not see you the same way. If youre charismatic as you say there shouldnt be a problem. Maybe you need to start drinking. Soooooo many kids from my high school said that sh*t, then they suddenly started getting hammered every weekend.

the problem is that these girls I charm become so boring to me. They seem to have to prove something to me like "I drink all weekend." I mean I get so bored and so sick of these girls. I don't go around bragging "I drank 3 cases of Corna and I passed out, then went to the hospital and puked all over my parents. Then I didn't remember any of it. Isn't that cool?" Its almost they're all on a mission to be complete sluts (*****s, get around the town). So I just end up moving on. I just haven't found a girl who holds the same morals as I do.

 

[American_Psycho]

Originally posted by The Master Disaster

Many people come up to me and say "I bet your fun to hang out with when your drunk." I just shake my head on-the-inside when they say that. I'm a square (No Drugs, No Alcohol).

You might as well start drinking now, because otherwise you're going to have the same problem but 50 times worse once you get to college.

 

[True Wolf]

Don't listen to these guys who are telling you to drink. I am not opposed to drinking, but what i am opposed to is comprimising your morals and values for any reason. That, is were you lose a part of yourself, your humanity. You're fine, nothing is wrong with you. All those people wanting to hang out are jealous of your close group of weekend friends because they get to chill with you backstage.

 

[American_Psycho]

Originally posted by True Wolf
Don't listen to these guys who are telling you to drink. I am not opposed to drinking, but what i am opposed to is comprimising your morals and values for any reason. That, is were you lose a part of yourself, your humanity. You're fine, nothing is wrong with you. All those people wanting to hang out are jealous of your close group of weekend friends because they get to chill with you backstage.

I'm just being completely honest with him. In college, even more so than high school, the social scene revolves around alcohol. The only possible exceptions are strict religious schools or military academies.

Just consider three things:
1) Alcohol will be present at 95% of all social functions you will ever attend from this point on
2) There is nothing evil, unhealthy, or dangerous about having a few drinks at a party
3) I believe you should try something at least once before ruling it out of your life

I myself was "against" drinking until my senior year of high school. Knowing what I know now, I really wish I had started drinking earlier. I'm not some moron or anything either, I go to one of the top 12 ranked colleges in the country and scored in the 99th percentile on the SATs and ACTs.

I'm not trying to compromise your morals but I speak from experience.

 

[American_Psycho]

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