Is there some sort of quality that attracts Attention Wh0res?

[TheInfamousCBear]

Listen...

Over the last couple of years, Ive been attracting wayyyy too many attention wh0res...You know, the girls who are already taken, who come up to you acting like theyre interested, you ask them out and they say they are taken, and then you try to get them away and they keep pestering (sp?) you? And 90% of the time its at work, or some social situation...How in the hell can you keep these women at bay, like repelling them or something, cause its a waste of my time dealing with them and I dont want to ruin someone elses sh1t...

 

[MickeyOneil]

Tell them "no"

 

[CLOONEY]

Originally posted by MickeyOneil
Tell them "no"

GENIUS, but quite true

 

[chlywly]

Give them no attention lol

 

[Tryin to Grow a Chin]

Upon meeting an attention-wh0re my strategy is usually as follows:

1) Neg.

2) Walk away. Talk to and flirt with nearby other girl; kino is essential.

3) Come back and push/pull qualify in friendly, joking manner.

4) Initiate kino.

5) Withdraw kino.

6) Pay deep attention to what she is saying.

7) Withdraw attention.

8) Instead of merely passing her shyt tests, turn them around into shyt tests of your own. (Read my FR, "Chin is on a Roll!" for an example of this.)

9) Escalate kino.

10) Close.

***. . . Even attention wh0res can be seduced . . .***

 

[WatchMeWalk]

TO answer your original question, I believe AWs have no problem approaching ANYONE as long as the target provides sadistic amusement. I've seen AWs mess with both popular guys and shy loners with the same results: pointless drama and ego gratification.

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
Listen...

Over the last couple of years, Ive been attracting wayyyy too many attention wh0res...You know, the girls who are already taken, who come up to you acting like theyre interested, you ask them out and they say they are taken, and then you try to get them away and they keep pestering (sp?) you? And 90% of the time its at work, or some social situation...How in the hell can you keep these women at bay, like repelling them or something, cause its a waste of my time dealing with them and I dont want to ruin someone elses sh1t...

CBear,
AW *****s are often attracted to above average looking DJ's or at least natural DJ type guys. Guys who act manly with confidence and aren't afraid to step up and speak their mind. They have all sorts of AFC type guy friends, but the only guys they actually bang are good looking DJ type guys.

 

[TesuqueRed]

AWs are attracted by attention---to answer your subject line. The real question you ask is what to do about the inordinate number of AWs you're attracting--yes?

Practice--what else are you going to do?

You already know they're AWs, right? So don't mess with getting the phone number or asking them out, you know that just feeds it and accomplishes nothing for it.

Joke:
Q: What did the Masochist say to the Sadist?
A: Beat me! Beat me!
Q: So what did the Sadist reply?
A: No! No!

Same deal for you: they want you to ask and pursue. Don't. Tease them with it, like you're about to give them what they want, and then snatch it away. Give attention, appear interested, then--without warning--go running off because you just saw a friend (better if it's a girl who is slightly less attractive than said AW--this is a sort of neg hit...)

You might as well work with it since you're doing something that attracts AWs.

 

[PEACEDJ]

WHAT!!! You attracting attention *****s and you want to get RID OF THEM!!??? Dude, as long as you can control yourself and know that these girls are attention *****s.. you can use these girls to your advantage such as using them for social proof against a girl you want.



Oh and I have to disagree with some of the things that are on the list of "Tryin to grow a chin".... If you give them kino and withdrawl then that creates challenge and it'll do the excatly opposite of the what this guy is trying to accomplish. Same with 1,2,3, and 7..... I don't know which option your describing? They all sound like the way to attract attention *****s..

 

[Bungo Pony]

WHAT!!! You attracting attention *****s and you want to get RID OF THEM!!??? Dude, as long as you can control yourself and know that these girls are attention *****s.. you can use these girls to your advantage such as using them for social proof against a girl you want.

Agreed. A little bit of flirting with an AW will get you noticed by other women, and they'll take an interest in you. Social Proof is one of the most powerful DJ tools.

 

[seulaxplaya]

they must think ur a scrub

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by TesuqueRed
AWs are attracted by attention---.

Nope. AW get all sorts of attention from AFC guys. yet they never sleep with them. AW need some sort of challenge, a mysterious, challenge type guy. Good looking with DJ attributes. Thats the guys they always date. Only when the DJ type guy starts to get jealous, and starts doing AFC type things, does she lose IL and dump him.

 

[Tryin to Grow a Chin]

Originally posted by PEACEDJ

Oh and I have to disagree with some of the things that are on the list of "Tryin to grow a chin".... They all sound like the way to attract attention *****s..

Bingo! I am offering him a better option. Instead of warding AW's off he can learn to lay them.

Every AW I've ever seen was pretty fvcking hot.

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Yeah most of the guys have the right answer... take it from a self-proclaimed attention wh*re... attention wh*res are attracted to ATTENTION and the way to keep them feeding off of you for attention is to keep giving them attention. Cut off the attention & then they will either, leave you alone or it will drive them crazy.

 

[Tryin to Grow a Chin]

Did you guys hear something?

Me either . . .

 

[k_hectic]

Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Yeah most of the guys have the right answer... take it from a self-proclaimed attention wh*re... attention wh*res are attracted to ATTENTION and the way to keep them feeding off of you for attention is to keep giving them attention. Cut off the attention & then they will either, leave you alone or it will drive them crazy.

It's about time you showed up. lol

 

[JustDoItAlways]

4 things about attention wh0res:

1. You can smell them out (if you are a girl first cause chicks can pick up on attention wh0res rather quickly) or by watching how they are with other guys. If they are flirting with more than 1 guy at a time (YOU), they are an attention wh0re;

2. Stay away TOTALLY from attention wh0res because if you are one of those guys caught in her snare, you lose a lot of respect from those witnessing it. There is nothing more disgusting than a group of 5 guys buzzing around an attention wh0re with obviously none of them having any chance whatsoever. And I pointed out that chicks can pick out attention wh0res rather quickly. All those girls watching you get caught in the snare of an attention wh0re will lose respect for you. And chicks do not fvck guys that they do not respect.

3. The way to nail an attention wh0re is to stay away from her TOTALLY and then strike while the iron is hot. Give her No attention until the absolute right time and then give her massive CHALLENGE attention along the lines of Senior Fingers "How to nail the party girl" in the tips section. After nailing her, leave her alone again until the absolute right time comes along again and then its Rinse and Repeat time.

4. The best way to sniff out an attention wh0re is to actually ask her out on a real date and try to nail her by the second or third one. Don't sit around for months trying to figure out if she actually likes you or not. Put her to the test as soon as possible. Attention wh0res have the unusual ability of making you put off that question. You DJs have probably witnessed this first hand. Attention wh0res give out little "hints" till the cows come home but they do not put up or shut up when the time comes. Force the issue so that you know one way or the other. As usual, it comes down to "asking for the number or the date." Interesting how the DJ rules apply so often for so many different situations.

If you do not follow 1-4, you have the qualities that an attention wh0re looks for.

 

[1nfamous CBear]

Hey listen...Its CBear...My old account is having problems...Here we go...

Im really laid back, and everyone tells me im the strong, silent type...Thats what I think attracts them to me...And its not the fact that they are attention wh0res that bother me, its the fact that they are in relationships, even married ones which I hate the most...Its like I do everything right, the girl is in my hands and then they say they are in a relationship or that they are married, and when I try to leave them alone, they wont leave me alone...I get mad at them and I show that im mad, but it wont stop them!!!!! They fukking follow me and sh1t, and I hate that because its foul that they do that to the person in the relationship...Damn, but I wont lie though, some of them look good as sh1t, and I like the attention, but still I want them away...

 

[TesuqueRed]

Originally posted by myfriendblu
Nope. AW get all sorts of attention from AFC guys. yet they never sleep with them. AW need some sort of challenge, a mysterious, challenge type guy. Good looking with DJ attributes. Thats the guys they always date. Only when the DJ type guy starts to get jealous, and starts doing AFC type things, does she lose IL and dump him.

Got the words backwards--the thought should be that they live to attract attention...

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by Tryin to Grow a Chin
Did you guys hear something?

Me either . . .

Nope, didn't hear much except for an AW so lame that she needs to AW on a website because she isn't attractive enough to do it in real life.

The one thing all AW's need to be is, well, pretty dam good looking. Or else they wouldn't get much attention. Since she can't AW much in real life, she comes here, and, well, um.......LOL