Is she shady? (Tinder Date)

[HyenaPrince]

I've matched this woman on tinder a week ago. She's a solid 8. Blonde, great tits and works out. I haven't been texting her much. A couple of phrases to work out logistics. I told her to come to ABC restaurant at 5 pm and she was instantly down for it. This was today. Something important came up for me last second so I had to reschedule.

Now here comes the weird part. When I asked her if she was free on Thursday, she followed up with "But can't I see you after you're done with your thing later?"
I'm extremely suspicious of people anyway, so this made me all the more skeptical. I was trying to see how far I can go with my demands and play a little game. I told her to come to my place at 9pm after I'm done. She agreed instantly again. Mind you, I've never met her before. She sent me a voice message the other day, so I could verify her being an actual woman.

When I asked her to sent me a picture of her face before she gets here, she asked me if I expected her too look worse than in her pictures. I simply told her "Yes".
She gave me this bullsh*t answer: "I don't send people I don't know a picture of my face". I replied "But you're meeting with men you don't know at 9pm? Okay."
20 minutes later she followed through and sent me a picture of her, styled up with makeup and perfectly positioned hair. Now she's getting really straightfoward and asks me for my address so she could drive to my place by herself. She deleted the address part after I didn't reply.

At this point I'm mocking her: "It's already 9pm! Where are you? Nowadays you can't count on anyone anymore."

I've experienced thirsty women before. But this is a new level. Do you think this is a coup? Why would she be that motivated to meet someone she hasn't even seen before? I'm writing this post because I want to f*ck her. On the other side I don't want to risk assaulting some guys who try to jump me and, of course, getting hurt myself. That's just unnecessary and annoying.

 

[Jango_88]

that indeed sounds very weird. I mean I ****ed women too that invited me straight to their homes to fck, but I have never experienced that a woman was this thirsty for secs and even is willing to come to your place. I hope she doesnt have a dikk bro. seriously. heard some horror stories from friends before.

 

[HyenaPrince]

that indeed sounds very weird. I mean I ****ed women too that invited me straight to their homes to fck, but I have never experienced that a woman was this thirsty for secs and even is willing to come to your place. I hope she doesnt have a dikk bro. seriously. heard some horror stories from friends before.

Was thinking the same thing man. Nowadays anything could happen. Too easy of an opportunity. I can't deal with too easy.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Unfortunately or fortunately, depending on how full your cup is, the current housing crisis brought on by COVID is probably going to inspire much more behavior similar to this, women just basically throwing themselves at men because they have nowhere to go.

To be fair, I have had women with a volition to meet me like this and its usually only about sex.

So either she was homeless or horny, take your pick.

 

[HyenaPrince]

Unfortunately or fortunately, depending on how full your cup is, the current housing crisis brought on by COVID is probably going to inspire much more behavior similar to this, women just basically throwing themselves at men because they have nowhere to go.

To be fair, I have had women with a volition to meet me like this and its usually only about sex.

So either she was homeless or horny, take your pick.

She looks pretty clean and sent me a picture from her bedroom, so I think she has an apartment. That behavior is reckless as f*ck nonetheless. Sometimes I'm so baffled by womens' behavior that I want to address it directly. I almost asked her why she would do something like that with a stranger at that hour, but my d*ck wouldn't let me.

I would have lost her cooperation then and there by showing ambivalence. She hasn't even deleted my number after I ignored her. So I'd say she's still game.

 

[Jango_88]

She looks pretty clean and sent me a picture from her bedroom, so I think she has an apartment. That behavior is reckless as f*ck nonetheless. Sometimes I'm so baffled by womens' behavior that I want to address it directly. I almost asked her why she would do something like that with a stranger at that hour, but my d*ck wouldn't let me.

I would have lost her cooperation then and there by showing ambivalence. She hasn't even deleted my number after I ignored her. So I'd say she's still game.

some women are pigs like men, especially those ones with high secs drive. the norm of women are not like that, but the ones with very high secs drive were the ones who invited me to their places from dating apps like tinder.

 

[HyenaPrince]

some women are pigs like men, especially those ones with high secs drive. the norm of women are not like that, but the ones with very high secs drive were the ones who invited me to their places from dating apps like tinder.

Did that behavior take any of your motivation or interest level away? Obviously you had sex with them, but was it as satisfying as it would have been with more of a challenge?

 

[Jango_88]

Did that behavior take any of your motivation or interest level away? Obviously you had sex with them, but was it as satisfying as it would have been with more of a challenge?

hmm it depended if the woman was hot. the last 2 cases where this has happened, both chicks were between a proper 7 and 8. and yes it was satisfying af because they were really horny and treated my dikk well.

 

[HyenaPrince]

hmm it depended if the woman was hot. the last 2 cases where this has happened, both chicks were between a proper 7 and 8. and yes it was satisfying af because they were really horny and treated my dikk well.

It's amazing how soft and accommodating women become once they feel submissive towards you. For this fleeting moment they are truly delicious.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

She looks pretty clean and sent me a picture from her bedroom, so I think she has an apartment. That behavior is reckless as f*ck nonetheless. Sometimes I'm so baffled by womens' behavior that I want to address it directly. I almost asked her why she would do something like that with a stranger at that hour, but my d*ck wouldn't let me.

I would have lost her cooperation then and there by showing ambivalence. She hasn't even deleted my number after I ignored her. So I'd say she's still game.

If a question has the potential to change the outcome, I would suggest it is more than a question, but rather a suggestion, similar to how i'm suggesting that to you now.

By asking that question, you suggest to her "You're a dirt hoe, aren't ya?"

See like, this is my thing, I know I can get her to go to another place sexually, if only I can get her to admit that she is a hoe, because then there is absolutely zero face left for her to save.

Now, to get into some dark power dynamics, there is this idea of a "Tether" or an appendage of sorts that connects you to somebody else, in a very intimate way. Once there is zero face left to save, I can begin doing horrific sexual acts that she'll love and these horrific acts will be a tether between my world and her world, OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM. Employing the Tether, you'll have her paying your bills, car note, because there is an inherent element of trust there and sadly, trust is built to be abused... You'll have access to all her friends, as friends... For a guy focused solely on sex, all of this may be a bit underwhelming, but for a guy who is ready to play the game of life, employing Tethers is important.

 

[HyenaPrince]

Why not say it to her? Gotta speak your mind at times
I have a rule that i developed with women. Life in general. Kind of like an iron rule

Always take the moral high ground.
I think barring the complete psycho drug attic most decent women are looking for higher ground.

Look what just happened to the Falwells.
He let his porn addiction bleed into his real life and now is in a **** storm.
And his wife will play the victim card and try to vindicate herself.

She even told me that she took this day off from work to meet me. I replied with "Hahahahahahah"
A normal person with any self-respect would go f*cking nuts over someone disrespecting their time like that. She kept pressing for me naming a time and place. I couldn't take her seriously. At times like this you understand how women feel with 100 beta boys drooling over them. Disgusting.

Taking the moral high ground might indeed be a legit technique man. I'll think about it during my coming encounters.

 

[HyenaPrince]

If a question has the potential to change the outcome, I would suggest it is more than a question, but rather a suggestion, similar to how i'm suggesting that to you now.

By asking that question, you suggest to her "You're a dirt hoe, aren't ya?"

See like, this is my thing, I know I can get her to go to another place sexually, if only I can get her to admit that she is a hoe, because then there is absolutely zero face left for her to save.

Now, to get into some dark power dynamics, there is this idea of a "Tether" or an appendage of sorts that connects you to somebody else, in a very intimate way. Once there is zero face left to save, I can begin doing horrific sexual acts that she'll love and these horrific acts will be a tether between my world and her world, OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM. Employing the Tether, you'll have her paying your bills, car note, because there is an inherent element of trust there and sadly, trust is built to be abused... You'll have access to all her friends, as friends... For a guy focused solely on sex, all of this may be a bit underwhelming, but for a guy who is ready to play the game of life, employing Tethers is important.

That sh*t sounds like black magic. You had me until the "let her pay your bills" part. But other than that I like that concept. Making her let her guard down, by building rapport on the same wavelength to communicate without boundaries. That's powerful.

 

[Lookatu]

As convenient as it is, I never give my address to anyone new unless I've vetted them in public somewhere. I usually have them meet me at a public place for a coffee or drinks right by where I live. Then if everything checks out, I invite them over.
Just too many crazy people out there these days, not to mention chicks that can't pass the boner test in real life outside of their doctored photos.

 

[HyenaPrince]

Yes. Not like a religious thing but more like a high ground for your values.
Women like it when you stand on principles.

Jot down as many as you can that you will screen women for. Can be whatever your principles are. Then as you date start dropping or keeping those within those principles.

Its a wide range everyone is different.
It could be anything from smoking to no kids to 40k a year job.
Its your sandbox.

When you are in your social circles dont be afraid to let them be known.
The girls are listening way more then we are lol

Interesting. You have ideals to live by and she needs to feel the urge to meet your standards as a side effect.

 

[HyenaPrince]

Just too many crazy people out there these days.

Amen to that.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

That sh*t sounds like black magic. You had me until the "let her pay your bills" part. But other than that I like that concept. Making her let her guard down, by building rapport on the same wavelength to communicate without boundaries. That's powerful.

Personally I like women with money, don't care about anything else really, I mean I want kids at some point, gotta think about qualities for a woman there, but on the hole, i'm happy with money, maybe more of an anecdotal thing, but maybe not!

Tethers are powerful, because they take a person's greatest resource, their social network and pits them against it. They will want to maintain their image, however if powerful enough, the sexual experience you provide will cause her to look at herself differently... This internal conflict, where her reputation, her social life, its all been skewed by you, she might even feel devalued, but here is the thing: Women have such a big ego, they are usually not going to out themselves to their friends unprovoked, so to make herself feel valuable again, she's gonna sing the praises of this new guy, you.

Tethers do not last forever, they break down, sometimes fast and often you will have to re-tether, or find another way to tether outside of the bedroom, but either way, your time is limited, you don't have a lot of space to maneuver, so what you gotta do is just go for it. Just ask her to pay your bill. She'll do it and she won't do it because she likes you, she'll do it off of the strength of the tether alone... The internal conflict is easily taken advantage of.

 

[Jango_88]

She even told me that she took this day off from work to meet me

seriously after this I would ignore her and never meet her again. huge turnoff in my opinion. wtf is wrong with her?!

 

[HyenaPrince]

seriously after this I would ignore her and never meet her again. huge turnoff in my opinion. wtf is wrong with her?!

Yeah, she really was gambling too high with that one. It's extremely desperate. It also makes her not credible in my opinion.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She looks pretty clean and sent me a picture from her bedroom, so I think she has an apartment. That behavior is reckless as f*ck nonetheless. Sometimes I'm so baffled by womens' behavior that I want to address it directly. I almost asked her why she would do something like that with a stranger at that hour, but my d*ck wouldn't let me.

I would have lost her cooperation then and there by showing ambivalence. She hasn't even deleted my number after I ignored her. So I'd say she's still game.

So let me get this straight. The chick is horny and wants to fvck, you claim you want to bang her but then make up a bunch of excuses not to.

Either sh!t or get off the pot. She wants a man who can close the deal not play switchfoot with her all night.

 

[Trez]

You guys are way to up tight and scared.