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Is she just shy? (long)

digitalrat

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First scene. Were downstairs watching my favorite show on television. American Choppers. Now, I came to watch it with her brother but he didnt even watch it with me. But, She watched the whole show with me. We werent laying together because I didnt want to make a move infront of her mom that was laying on the couch with her.

So after that, her brother and his friend come down stairs. So they want to watch a movie. His friend has never seen Jackass the movie. So I'm like "Yeah lets watch it!" Then I go over to where the girl is laying on the couch and ask for my blanket that she has thats my favorite. She says "I'm not giving you the blanket!" Then I just turn around and go get a cup of watch and talked to her brother for a minute. Then I turn around and she throws the blanket at me. I throw it back at her and go over and pick her up, she's laughing the whole time. I then lay under her on the couch and she lays on me. Then after a couple of minutes, her brother says that he's going to go watch the movie in his room. Then it goes back in forth and she fights for me saying that we should watch it downstairs. He gets the dvd and locks himself in the room.

Her step-dad made a rule that I have to leave the house by 12pm when he's not there. He works at night. She has known about this rule for awhile, but hasnt told me. Now, her step-dad calls and tells her to tell me.

Ok, heres scene 2. Where the fun starts. It's her brother, his friend, this girl and myself in her brothers room.

Her brother, his friend and I are on the bed. She comes in with another blanket because we all didnt fit on the bed. I'm on the bed and she lays on the floor with the blanket.

I lay on the floor with her, but she's facing the other way. Then she goes "Do my feet stink?" playing around and I start tickling her feet. Then she sits up and starts watching the movie. I just have this feeling that she wants to lay back but she's just shy and doesnt want to make the first move. For furture reference, which youve might of seen by my other posts, that she doesnt have a problem laying and cuddling with me.

So its like 11:41 and I say "Alright I got to go" Then I get up and sit on the bed. Then she lays down and puts the blanket over herself. Now she has her phone by her so that she can check that time. So at around 11:51, I get up and slap hands with the boys and say I got to go. I tell her that she needs to lock the door. I start tickling her and she's like "Stooop" in a playful manner.

Then I'm like fvck it, I'm going in for the kiss. Then I get real close to her face with mine and I start playing with her ear. I nibble on it then I lick it and blow on it. She says "Stoooop" again. Then I go for her neck but she puts her hand over her ear and with her forearm is pushing my face away from her neck. Then I'm like "What the **** should I do next?" So I remember that wonderful post by Sir_Chancealot. I then proceed to lick her wrist and while I'm doing this she doesnt move her at all, then I blowed on it and she says "Stoooop."

So I'm like alright, wanna play hard to get. I move back and make a comment about the movie. Then I go back to tickling her. Under the arms, the side of her stomach, her feet. We play around a bit more and I blow in her ear. I can tell when I do this stuff that she is getting that tingling feeling. She is laying on her side facing away from me with a blanket over her.

I go under the blanket and start running my fingers down her back and she doesnt say or move at all. Then I think I need her on her back so I can get on top. So I start tickling her feet and she moves and I grab her leg. She lays flat on her stomach. So I get on top and start riding her like a cowboy. My ass is bumping up against her ass. I grab her hair and pull it back, just having fun. She laughs and is eating it up. So I hold her down with my legs and start tickling her under her arms.

I then proceed to try to get to her face. I move her shirt back and start blowing on her neck, then I start kissing her neck. She doesnt say one word or move. I stop doing that because hair was interfering. I go back to trying to get the lips. I would go to one side where her hand is facing and she would turn her head. Were both laughing. Then she says "Stooop" again and I'm like ok let me test her. So I whisper in her ear "You know you don't want me to stop." She doesnt say a fvcking word. I start touching her stomach and playing with her bellybutton ring.

Then her brother and her start saying "No you lock the door!" She didnt want to go down stairs and lock the door when I leave. I don't know if she didnt want me to try to do something at the door or she wanted me to continue to play with her to get her to do it. Now she knew that I had to leave at 12pm and she was keeping track of the time. I'm like "What time is it?" and her brother says "12:02, you got to go" She doesnt say "You better leave" She just continues to lay there waiting for me to continue putting the moves on her.

Now, I have to state for the record that she NEVER said a firm "Stop!" or "No!" I'm not into getting play from a chick that doesnt want it. It totally turns me off when a girl doesnt like me Thats just the way I think. I could hear in her voice that she was smiling. She would laugh when something funny happened in the movie.

So finally to my questions.
Why was she so shy and didnt want me to kiss her?

How do I handle a girl that is like this?

Is it that nobody has ever done those things before and she know how to respond to them?

I'm leaving for a trip for 7 days and she knows this. Now, I want to kiss her and make it more like "Were going out" By that I dont mean boyfriend and girlfriend, just more like she's taken.

Now she has a so called "boyfriend" but left for vacation and wont be back for awhile. Now I don't think that she is just ****ing with me while he is gone because her best friend told me on the phone that "Her having her boyfriend is not written in stone" Now, Even though she said that, I'm going to be extra careful with her. I'm going to watch to see if she cheats on me if I go out with her.

Sorry for writing so much, I just wanted you have all the information to come to the right conclusion.
 
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well most girls who have any type of reation ship more than likely will not kiss another guy, unless you make some major moves or if you can get them to realize you are better than their origional guy.. so aparently she was feeling guilty and so on... iv worked around this before, but it depends on who the girl is, soemtimes they wont even budge...
 

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Originally posted by bcdefxyz2000
well most girls who have any type of reation ship more than likely will not kiss another guy, unless you make some major moves or if you can get them to realize you are better than their origional guy.. so aparently she was feeling guilty and so on... iv worked around this before, but it depends on who the girl is, soemtimes they wont even budge...
Now how do I go about getting her to break up with this loser?
Do I just sit her down and have a talk with her. I feel that's alittle AFC, but give me some points and how I should word it in a DJ manner. I can't think of how to word that without coming off as desperate.

Should I talk to her best friend and get her advice on how to go about this and maybe why she didnt want to kiss me?
 
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