So I broke up with my ex due to my confused nature about what I wanted. I was unsure if I wanted an LTR or to continue dating.
We dated about 8 months. I broke up with her, we began talking again, she now works under me, I sleep over her house reguarly and her at mine but...............the other day I was attempting to go a step further and kiss her. But she said that was another level!!
Now, I know that my breaking up with her hurt her ego and I lost all trust in her eyes. She has made comments like," you did a complete 180 and I dont know what to beleive.......you are jekyl and hide". When we are laying together "im in my briefs, she is in her shorts and tank top" it is clearly not friends. She is rubbing my body and me hers! She has even commented about my unit size saying she forgot how big it was. Whatever!
Now I know that there was/maybe still is a guy in the backround. Her comment about this other guy a month ago went like this,"I have met someone else just like you, but I cant get over you". I have continued to train her and hang out with her and do things differently then i did the first time and I think she is seeing this. We have slept at each others houses about 4-5 times now......and we have not gone to the next level yet. Her kino is always there. She is always rubbing me or touching me all the time. She was asking me how I feel about kids and marrige and everything so she def. seems to be testing the waters. I think if she wanted to be with this other guy, she would have already since they have been friends for 6 years and me and her have been broken up for 6 months. Im 24, she is 25.
What can I do to break the cycle here??
We dated about 8 months. I broke up with her, we began talking again, she now works under me, I sleep over her house reguarly and her at mine but...............the other day I was attempting to go a step further and kiss her. But she said that was another level!!
Now, I know that my breaking up with her hurt her ego and I lost all trust in her eyes. She has made comments like," you did a complete 180 and I dont know what to beleive.......you are jekyl and hide". When we are laying together "im in my briefs, she is in her shorts and tank top" it is clearly not friends. She is rubbing my body and me hers! She has even commented about my unit size saying she forgot how big it was. Whatever!
Now I know that there was/maybe still is a guy in the backround. Her comment about this other guy a month ago went like this,"I have met someone else just like you, but I cant get over you". I have continued to train her and hang out with her and do things differently then i did the first time and I think she is seeing this. We have slept at each others houses about 4-5 times now......and we have not gone to the next level yet. Her kino is always there. She is always rubbing me or touching me all the time. She was asking me how I feel about kids and marrige and everything so she def. seems to be testing the waters. I think if she wanted to be with this other guy, she would have already since they have been friends for 6 years and me and her have been broken up for 6 months. Im 24, she is 25.
What can I do to break the cycle here??
