Is once a day unreasonable?

[Tommy8723]

I'm 36 and every long term relationship I've had, including my current, she (29) always says the same thing, "The orgasms are too intense. I'm sore because you are so big. I don't have the energy to **** you every day."

I hate the idea of masturbating and I want more sex. I also believe her, she has multiple STRONG orgasms.

Any advice is welcomed and appreciated.

This isn't a troll post. I'm listening to "The Rational Male" and he mentioned this forum a lot so I thought I would sign up and ask you guys.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Why would you be seeing her every day is my question.

 

[SargeMaximus]

My ex and I fvcked daily till I started getting exhausted so we did a one day on one day off thing for my health

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Well everyone has different levels of libido.

Personally in my 50’s once a day is a minimum. If I don’t have sex I miss it. It does help that I have multiple options to maintain the habit, the good news is that any of my top gals would happily have sex with me daily or more often if possible. I’ve sustained 2 partners a day for months when things line up that way.

I do sometimes wish I had a lesser libido, I have made decisions with my gonads during my life, and I live with the consequences thereof.

 

[Young OG]

I'm 36 and every long term relationship I've had, including my current, she (29) always says the same thing, "The orgasms are too intense. I'm sore because you are so big. I don't have the energy to **** you every day."

I hate the idea of masturbating and I want more sex. I also believe her, she has multiple STRONG orgasms.

Any advice is welcomed and appreciated.

This isn't a troll post. I'm listening to "The Rational Male" and he mentioned this forum a lot so I thought I would sign up and ask you guys.

Usually when women deny their men sex, it’s a control thing. Maybe your D does hurt her but she makes it out worse than it is. Most women would love having an orgasm almost daily. My gf usually has 3 in a row from just riding me. Then we will bang again the same day or the next and she will have 3 in a row again. I’ve been with her almost 3 yrs and she never denies me sex.

Most women only bring sex to the table which means that’s all they have to bargain with, so by withholding sex, she’s pulling a power play on you. I would tell her you need more sex or you will find it elsewhere. If she doesn’t comply then find a woman that will.

 

[BoomToTheMoonAlice]

OMG, don't you just hate it when your hb 9.9 says, give me all 16 inches today!

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I'm 36 and every long term relationship I've had, including my current, she (29) always says the same thing, "The orgasms are too intense. I'm sore because you are so big. I don't have the energy to **** you every day."

Use her other holes. Don't make this complicated.
Or get a side chick.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Yes, you need to seek therapy

 

[Tommy8723]

Why would you be seeing her every day is my question.

Because I prefer sex daily, from a woman.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Because I prefer sex daily, from a woman.

Don't go exclusive if she doesn't match your libido. Don't overcomplicate things.

 

[Tommy8723]

Don't go exclusive if she doesn't match your libido. Don't overcomplicate things.

Oh I'm TAKING that advice, don't worry. And thank you!

 

[The Duke]

Did you explain your libido to her in the beginning?

 

[Bingo-Player]

One thing ive learnt over the years is not too believe much of what a woman says during intercourse

Every guy is obsessed with being " the best she has had" but its mostly nonsense propagated by Porn and male insecurity

I'm 36 and every long term relationship I've had, including my current, she (29) always says the same thing, "The orgasms are too intense. I'm sore because you are so big. I don't have the energy to **** you every day."

This is interesting because it almost directly opposes the ideology that women love big d1ck and " bigger the better" and its certainly not the first time i've heard something like this which always gets me thinking

Seems to me once the novelty of a "big one" has worn off , unless your girl is an out and out size queen (aka a Sloot) a big weapon is going to restrict you more than aid you in your sexual relations with her

We all know given half a chance a woman will use sex as a tool for manipulation in a weak relationship

I think this gets even worse when she controls the frame for sex as it gives her the perfect excuse to reject sex

After all there's only so many times she "can't be in the mood" but "making her sore" and " being too big" are two perfect extra excuses

None of it sounds like good news too me

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Because I prefer sex daily, from a woman.

Seems like you are in fantasy land with these expectations and seeing a woman every single day if you don't live with her is honestly ridiculous.

Find something to do other than spend time with her. Find some purpose in life other than having sex.

That's going to get old really quickly for her.

 

[Agamemnon43]

Maybe you dont have sexdaily, but dyslexia

 

[BadBoy89]

This isn't a troll post.

Would you trust someone that says "trust me"?

 

[Divorced w 3]

Seems like you are in fantasy land with these expectations and seeing a woman every single day if you don't live with her is honestly ridiculous.

Find something to do other than spend time with her. Find some purpose in life other than having sex.

That's going to get old really quickly for her.

I think this is the problem more than anything else… the mental emotional component

With posts like this fluffing himself up, I don’t think OP right now has the capacity to be humble and admit that he has to keep her excited, stimulate her mind and keep her juices flowing… her Chach is built to push out a grapefruit, she can handle you

She’s also probably well aware that he sees her as a sex toy and I’m sure that’s building up in the back of her mind

With that said OP it is possible, I don’t see my girl daily but we probably screw at least 3.5x a day on the days we do, I am sure I am batting over once a day on average this year.

 

[Murk]

After the honeymoon phase, who really has time or energy to bang daily? Maybe I'm just a low T cuck but damn, after 9-12 months it's a few times a week max.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

After the honeymoon phase, who really has time or energy to bang daily? Maybe I'm just a low T cuck but damn, after 9-12 months it's a few times a week max.

I have never even seen a women every day to do this if I didn't live with her and honestly why the fvck would you want to see her that much?

I need time to myself, they start getting annoying being around that much.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Yes more than a few days in a row can be a bit much. You can go longer if she’s drop dead sexy and gorgeous to you and generally a pleasant person - it does happen. Like going on a weeklong trip or something.

But in general more than say 3 days in a row with one woman can get monotonous, if I was locked down in a monogamous relationship with the nearly perfect gal I’d probably shoot for daily and end up with 4x-5x a week.