We all have ways we show people we love them...
Do you know the 5 Love Languages? Here they are:
l. Words of affirmation – using words to build up the other person. “Thanks for
taking out the garbage.” Not – “It’s about time you took the garbage out. The
flies were going to carry it out for you.”
2. Gifts – a gift says, “He was thinking about me. Look what he got for me.”
3. Acts of Service – Doing something for your spouse that you know they would
like. Cooking a meal, washing dishes, vacuuming floors, are all acts of service.
4. Quality time – by which I mean, giving your spouse your undivided attention.
Taking a walk together or sitting on the couch with the TV off – talking and
listening.
5. Physical touch – holding hands, hugging, kissing, sexual intercourse, are all
expressions of love.
Out of these five, each of you has a primary love language which speaks more
deeply to you than all the others. Discovering each other’s language and speaking
it regularly is the best way to keep love alive in a marriage. relationship
If this is a woman you are serious about you should talk about your "Love Language" with her rather than asking out of context questions to strangers on the internet. Don't get too hung up on the L word either... I have a 50 year old female friend who has told me she LOVES me for years. She is like a sister to me...