Is moving to a world class city to get hot girls a big mistake?

[Good Gao]

World class city meaning Los Angeles, New York, London, or any major city in the world really.

I recent visited Boise, ID and what I saw was something that you guys won't believe at first. The women in Boise were quite attractive and I saw quite a few of them with partners that weren't really the best out there. I was seeing a lot of guys who were average looking with girls above their league which they would not be able to get in a big city. The black and mexican guys there were doing quite well with the women there. I even remember seeing this one brown guy (not sure if he was a dark latino or an indian) with a knockout blonde that looked like Torrie Wilson and the two even had kids. Just being there and seeing these guys that weren't super jacked or dressed GQ with girls above their league made me think one thing:

"He would never be able to get her in NYC or LA".

A friend of mines in Boise told me this thing about women there which gave me a new perspective. What I was told is that a lot of these good looking girls in Boise are friendly and more down to earth because they haven't yet seen their true value as much. As soon as these girls go to the world class cities for their hopes of being an actress or model, they realize that they can have any kind of man they want and become total ice queens.

I have come to realize this too because a lot of the beautiful women I saw in Boise (lots of hot blondes there) were nice and smiling, quite open to talking to me and getting to know me too. In a place like Los Angeles, something like this would not be happening unless I had a lot of money, status, and was socially well connected. In a city like NYC or LA, it isn't the guy who has his **** together slaying, it is the guy who was born to slay that is slaying. The guy who was born to an old money family and spent summers in expensive places or the guy who got lucky and works a job that makes him high status in the eyes of these women (model photographer for example).

What's your take on this DJs?

 

[ZenMaster]

World class city meaning Los Angeles, New York, London, or any major city in the world really.

I recent visited Boise, ID and what I saw was something that you guys won't believe at first. The women in Boise were quite attractive and I saw quite a few of them with partners that weren't really the best out there. I was seeing a lot of guys who were average looking with girls above their league which they would not be able to get in a big city. The black and mexican guys there were doing quite well with the women there. I even remember seeing this one brown guy (not sure if he was a dark latino or an indian) with a knockout blonde that looked like Torrie Wilson and the two even had kids. Just being there and seeing these guys that weren't super jacked or dressed GQ with girls above their league made me think one thing:

"He would never be able to get her in NYC or LA".

A friend of mines in Boise told me this thing about women there which gave me a new perspective. What I was told is that a lot of these good looking girls in Boise are friendly and more down to earth because they haven't yet seen their true value as much. As soon as these girls go to the world class cities for their hopes of being an actress or model, they realize that they can have any kind of man they want and become total ice queens.

I have come to realize this too because a lot of the beautiful women I saw in Boise (lots of hot blondes there) were nice and smiling, quite open to talking to me and getting to know me too. In a place like Los Angeles, something like this would not be happening unless I had a lot of money, status, and was socially well connected. In a city like NYC or LA, it isn't the guy who has his **** together slaying, it is the guy who was born to slay that is slaying. The guy who was born to an old money family and spent summers in expensive places or the guy who got lucky and works a job that makes him high status in the eyes of these women (model photographer for example).

What's your take on this DJs?

So you place such a high value on certain "levels" of women as "prizes" that you'll move with the hopes of obtaining them to somehow "complete" yourself?

Sounds like an excellent strategy to stay losing in life.


Forget L.A. And forget So Suave advice. See your local psychiatrist. Or move to Boise and be the same insecure, incomplete, lustful fool you are. No joke.

 

[_sideways_]

World class city meaning Los Angeles, New York, London, or any major city in the world really.

I recent visited Boise, ID and what I saw was something that you guys won't believe at first. The women in Boise were quite attractive and I saw quite a few of them with partners that weren't really the best out there. I was seeing a lot of guys who were average looking with girls above their league which they would not be able to get in a big city. The black and mexican guys there were doing quite well with the women there. I even remember seeing this one brown guy (not sure if he was a dark latino or an indian) with a knockout blonde that looked like Torrie Wilson and the two even had kids. Just being there and seeing these guys that weren't super jacked or dressed GQ with girls above their league made me think one thing:

"He would never be able to get her in NYC or LA".

A friend of mines in Boise told me this thing about women there which gave me a new perspective. What I was told is that a lot of these good looking girls in Boise are friendly and more down to earth because they haven't yet seen their true value as much. As soon as these girls go to the world class cities for their hopes of being an actress or model, they realize that they can have any kind of man they want and become total ice queens.

I have come to realize this too because a lot of the beautiful women I saw in Boise (lots of hot blondes there) were nice and smiling, quite open to talking to me and getting to know me too. In a place like Los Angeles, something like this would not be happening unless I had a lot of money, status, and was socially well connected. In a city like NYC or LA, it isn't the guy who has his **** together slaying, it is the guy who was born to slay that is slaying. The guy who was born to an old money family and spent summers in expensive places or the guy who got lucky and works a job that makes him high status in the eyes of these women (model photographer for example).

What's your take on this DJs?

Yea...big city chicks never had to do much if they had looks...scratch that...big city girls usually dont have to do much. Good food is delivered, dry cleaning, taxis, life is too easy.

Rural areas girls have to walk to places, no food delivery 24/7 so they have to get off the couch and try to make a meal, etc. So yea it behooves them to be friendly.

Also, those boise chicks who are pretty with the hard working dudes, they could just be in it cuz they make good boise money. So its all relative. Thats why some dudes move to other countries where girls had to make the day count.

 

[In2theGame]

I often wonder the opposite. I clean up here in NYC when it comes to picking up Women. Im a native NYer, born and raised but i often think what i could do if i went to a smaller town/city. The Women here can be straight up b!tches if they dont like you or dont think your hot but you'll run into imports that come from other cities and countries for work, school or vacation.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

In my city, you have to be born in the same hospital for girls to even consider you.

 

[Tictac]

Doing anything just 'to get girls' is very AFC.

 

[jurry]

Agree with tictac. Also, these sweeping generalizations generally revolving around location and race are almost completely useless - "If i moved here would x happen, will x girls be attracted to me because of my race/physical attribute/etc."

You dont know until you try. Maybe you find some smoking girl you hit it off with in a big city, maybe you cant find one date in a small city. You cant know ahead of time, just go with what feels right.

 

[hop On hop Off]

OP, yes, it is harder to date a girl in LA and NYC from my experience.

My guess is girls have more options, becomes more superficial.

Compare with upper east NYC where girls see Mercedes Land Rover on the streets, LV stores within walking distance, vs a suburb in Colorado, where you only see flat land and few cars driving by one every half hour. Their mentality is shaped by their environment.

 

[Bossman90]

Looks arent always relative. Women also have types and each person finds different looks and personality traits attractive.

 

[IBreatheSpears]

I think it's easier to get girls in a bigger city. It's much harder to have an abundance mentality if you live in the country or a small town with only a few thousand inhabitants. Plus, cities tend to be full of foreign exchange students