I am new here and I have been doing a lot of reading but I know I need help with a lot of the techniques.
I may meet a girl at my work tomorrow who I am hot for. My job takes me to different locations, and she may be at that location and I will have several hours that I will be able to talk to her. Our jobs involve a lot of waiting.
So I need some quick advice. Basically, I met her a few weeks ago on a job and talked to her for several hours. Everything went well that day and I think I didn't say or do anything to screw things up. I put in a good combination of helping her out but not being treated like a carpet. At the end of the day I said something like se ya around and she gave me a great big smile and wave good bye. I could not stop thinking about her for at least a week. She never mentioned a boyfriend. I have been inspired to loose a few pounds and eat better, so it's all good no matter what happens.
So I saw her unexpectedly last week very briefly where I didn't really have a chance to talk to her for long. I said I had a great time that day when I met her. I also said I thought I missed a good oppourtunity the first day I had met her to talk about some of our common interests. She instantly offered up her email address and I gave her my card.
So here is the problem. I got her email address under false pretensis. I am married and she knows it. Do I want to bang her? Yes. Would I if I got a chance? Not sure, but she is f-ing hot. Would she want me, not sure either. I see it as a bit of a longshhot, but I am confident.
But my question is, I know you are supposed to project an air of confidence, smile, look in her eyes, all that good stuff. But is it ok to make statements while you are talking that show you are an Alpha male. Of couse you have to do it without sounding like a douce, but could you tell stories where you too charge, took the lead or things like that?
I am not sure what I am trying to say here. I guess in the end what I want to do is flirt with a hot broad because it makes me feel good. I don't know.
Any input?
I may meet a girl at my work tomorrow who I am hot for. My job takes me to different locations, and she may be at that location and I will have several hours that I will be able to talk to her. Our jobs involve a lot of waiting.
So I need some quick advice. Basically, I met her a few weeks ago on a job and talked to her for several hours. Everything went well that day and I think I didn't say or do anything to screw things up. I put in a good combination of helping her out but not being treated like a carpet. At the end of the day I said something like se ya around and she gave me a great big smile and wave good bye. I could not stop thinking about her for at least a week. She never mentioned a boyfriend. I have been inspired to loose a few pounds and eat better, so it's all good no matter what happens.
So I saw her unexpectedly last week very briefly where I didn't really have a chance to talk to her for long. I said I had a great time that day when I met her. I also said I thought I missed a good oppourtunity the first day I had met her to talk about some of our common interests. She instantly offered up her email address and I gave her my card.
So here is the problem. I got her email address under false pretensis. I am married and she knows it. Do I want to bang her? Yes. Would I if I got a chance? Not sure, but she is f-ing hot. Would she want me, not sure either. I see it as a bit of a longshhot, but I am confident.
But my question is, I know you are supposed to project an air of confidence, smile, look in her eyes, all that good stuff. But is it ok to make statements while you are talking that show you are an Alpha male. Of couse you have to do it without sounding like a douce, but could you tell stories where you too charge, took the lead or things like that?
I am not sure what I am trying to say here. I guess in the end what I want to do is flirt with a hot broad because it makes me feel good. I don't know.
Any input?
