Is it wrong for me to be angry?

[teddy]

As many of you probably know from my posts, I went through a haze for most of my formative years (all the way till 20 or so) being clueless about women. Not because I was frustrated with not getting anywhere with dating, but because I never even tried.

For me, schoolwork always came first. This has had its payoffs, but now I find I'm way behind in the women game.

I was raised by a traditional family. As such, I was very naive about how the world worked and how sexual relationships were. Now that I've taken TRP (I'm 25 now), I realize that I missed women in their prime years. My old stupid self thought I'd grow up till 30, find a virgin, and marry her.

Sometimes it makes me angry that I can't go back to when I was 16 or 17 and get women when they didn't have all the baggage or weren't used up. That I'd be someone's first rather than having to settle for "leftovers".

I don't know--it just makes me really angry and bitter now. Those years are gone and it's not like when I'm 30, I'll be pulling 18 year olds on a regular basis. I mean, pretty much when a girl hits 20-22, she's been around the block.

 

[Uncharted]

Dude - don't get angry because girls love to have sex. That's a bad mentality. You're not settling for leftovers either.

Also don't worry about your past. I found this site at 27 - some don't find it until much later. You are in your mid-twenties. There are SO MANY WOMEN available it's ridiculous.

 

[Don_Dom]

Look forward, young friend. I fell into the trap of thinking I was old when I turned 30 and I was in my mid 30s before I really snapped out of it. Lots of quality time lost there.

Honestly, if you improve yourself, work on your game, and practice you should have no problems pulling women of all ages until 35 or 38. Beyond that, really. Yes, there will be some who age will be an issue with, even at your age, but keep in mind that not every women is going to be into you for lots of other reasons anyway. And you may find, as many of us who are older have, that as you age and fewer women on the younger end are into you, you are kind of done with the drama and general retardation that the under 25 girls bring with them anyway.

They seem old to you now, but the 26-28 range is when they are just getting ripe, imo.

From your posts it sounds like you have a ways to go but you are also taking it seriously and practicing, too. I urge you to please not get hung up on this. You aren't even approaching your prime yet and you have nowhere to go but up. I would give anything to have had this community when I was 25.

 

[Mike32ct]

It happens. As a major late bloomer, the youngest I F-ed was 26. The youngest I made out with was 21.

I missed out on my entire teenage years and much of my 20s until nearly 28.

But I was ValeDICtorian and Summa C@m Laude lol. For real. I was the nerd that focused on grades.

I'll admit that it took me a long time to get over missing out. But I'm cool with it now. It is what it is.

The good news is you still have a world of puss available as a 25 yo guy.

I did alright for myself from 28 to 35. You can do even better at 25! Get out there man!

 

[papawapa]

deflowering a virgin is nothing special. pretty lame secks actually. they dont know what they are doing. you would be wise to get this romantic fantasy of meeting a pure woman and popping her cherry on your wedding night.

 

[teddy]

deflowering a virgin is nothing special. pretty lame secks actually. they dont know what they are doing. you would be wise to get this romantic fantasy of meeting a pure woman and popping her cherry on your wedding night.

It may not be, but it's an ego thing. Like, I'll never be someone's "first". That pisses me off for some reason.

Don't worry, I got rid of that fantasy when I swallowed TRP. I know it's not gonna happen.

 

[Don_Dom]

Deflowering virgins still happens, bud. Even after age 25. Do yourself a huge favor and dont let this stuff get you down.

 

[VikingKing]

You will get over it man. It gets better. You will learn to not get hung up on stuff so much in time, you will realize it doesn't matter to you as much as you think it does.

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

Older guys always get the younger girls. You are at the perfect age to be pulling chicks from 18 - 22. Go out there and get it done, NO MORE EXCUSES. Just because you are focusing on school doesn't mean there is not time for women. Time management is key and so is balance in your life.

 

[Cremasta]

Now that I've taken TRP (I'm 25 now), I realize that I missed women in their prime years. My old stupid self thought I'd grow up till 30, find a virgin, and marry her.

Sometimes it makes me angry that I can't go back to when I was 16 or 17 and get women when they didn't have all the baggage or weren't used up.

Wrong! You might not get 16 & 17 year olds anymore, but you sure as hell haven't missed women in their prime.

If I could go back to being a horny 18yo, I'd be hitting on all the 27-31 year old women and playing up to their ego's like mad. They're the ones with the time and money to do regular Pilates and stuff, and by that age they know how to use what they've got!

 

[hockeyfreak79]

OP work on your inner game bro. Stop caring about a womans past dude, it will eat you alive if you keep think that way. Sh*t to be fvckin 25 again. LET IT GO BRO!

 

[hockeyfreak79]

OP work on your inner game bro. Stop caring about a womans past dude, it will eat you alive if you keep think that way. Sh*t to be fvckin 25 again. LET IT GO BRO!

 

[thelastmanonearth]

Flirt with chicks in there mid 30's too if you want to have a really good time. They are all either unhappily married, separated, divorced. You have to deal with ****ed up schedules and kids out of the way but man you just text them a few times and blow in their ear the panties fall off and they are on fire. It's pretty hilarious, they are also into dirty talk like you wouldn't believe some of the **** that will come out of their mouths. They are also big into using toys in the bedroom, you wouldn't believe how funny it is when your banging a broad and using a vibrator on her and she goes off like a cannon.

 

[MrNiceGuy23]

Like others have said, banging a virgin really isn't that special. Sure it's nice to think "I was her first" but it's not fun at all. I was a virgin with my first girlfriend and our first time consisted of me sitting there for 20 minutes while she tried to adjust to getting it in, and then after that it hurt too much so we stopped.

Although I too get disgusted if I know a woman has been with 5, 6, 7 or more guys before me (sometimes just thinking they've been with someone else bothers me lol) but in the end is makes for better sex. My ex was a ***** who has been having sex since she was 14 or 15, that never sat well with me I always thought it was disgusting, but she was great at giving head and great in bed.