Is it right to feel guilty?

[namismybabe]

I met this doctor the other day, and I was into her for a while, but in honesty she is a bit of a slob. Whilst I did not say why we didn't think we'd work out, she started crying saying she was really lonely. I don't like to turn any woman away whom I like in the least, but then I feel guilty.

 

[sylvester the cat]

are you drunk?

 

[BraddH]

are you drunk?

are you?

 

[Alvafe]

I met this doctor the other day, and I was into her for a while, but in honesty she is a bit of a slob. Whilst I did not say why we didn't think we'd work out, she started crying saying she was really lonely. I don't like to turn any woman away whom I like in the least, but then I feel guilty.

one more reason for you to stay away, every time she don't get things her way she will try to push for guilty trip on you.

but its up to you if you want someone like her around

 

[DonGorgon]

its normal to feel guilty but right and wrong and purely 8subjective.

 

[VikingKing]

From my understanding, people who feel guilty about nonsense like this (no offense) have been used a lot in life. Because you sympathize with people who are sad, because you know how they feel, you know how they feel because you have been taken advantage of a lot. Stop being so nice man.

Who gives a fvck if you rejected her, you think woman felt bad for rejecting you? 99% of the time they do not care. You should do the same.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Feeling guilty for turning down a woman you are not attracted to is incredibly AFC. Your feeling of guilt in that situation is a reflection of an internal belief that you automatically owe something to women - all women. I bet you would not feel guilty about turning down the advances of a gay man (assuming you are not gay yourself...) Yet, you feel guilty about turning down a woman. Think about that for a second.

 

[Serenity]

You had the choice of going for something that you had a bad feeling for or to stop it before it gets harder. You chose the latter and saved yourself a lot of time and energy you can now put into something that makes you feel good.

Now you can be unhappy and eventually get over it instead of keep being unhappy with her.

Your reason to feel guilty is that you don't like to turn women away, yet you did it. You can either change your values or your actions. If you stick to the value of not turning women away this may cause problems later on. If you change the value to "I don't like to turn women away unless [add things you don't like]" then it would be easier to justify your action by the things you don't tolerate.

You will feel good when all your actions matches what you think.

 

[namismybabe]

its normal to feel guilty but right and wrong and purely 8subjective.

Right and wrong don't even exist.

Though this proves the sociopathy of the average PUA.

 

[namismybabe]

From my understanding, people who feel guilty about nonsense like this (no offense) have been used a lot in life. Because you sympathize with people who are sad, because you know how they feel, you know how they feel because you have been taken advantage of a lot. Stop being so nice man.

Who gives a fvck if you rejected her, you think woman felt bad for rejecting you? 99% of the time they do not care. You should do the same.

Er.. no, it's called emotion. And who determines nonsense? Importance is relative, duh.

Don't PUAs teach life wisdom?

 

[namismybabe]

You had the choice of going for something that you had a bad feeling for or to stop it before it gets harder. You chose the latter and saved yourself a lot of time and energy you can now put into something that makes you feel good.

Now you can be unhappy and eventually get over it instead of keep being unhappy with her.

Your reason to feel guilty is that you don't like to turn women away, yet you did it. You can either change your values or your actions. If you stick to the value of not turning women away this may cause problems later on. If you change the value to "I don't like to turn women away unless [add things you don't like]" then it would be easier to justify your action by the things you don't tolerate.

You will feel good when all your actions matches what you think.

People contradict. And?

I turn women away all the time for trivial things, who cares? the world is a free for all.

 

[namismybabe]

Feeling guilty will not change the past, nor will it make you a better person.

So you show sociopathy? gotcha...