Is it really possible is ONE interaction goes any bit sour its over? Help..

[thelonewolflegend]

I mean ive been dating this girl for 6 months but a minor feeling inside maybe thinks this one night might of ruined it? I wouldnt know how or understand why it wouldnt make sense. I accidently came out complained about sex I wanted to have it more then once a night like few times i tried to be spontaneous she stopped me and wanted to be on phone i try to mess with her and she gets mad wants me to go shes on phone (ive seen guys mess with girls on phone before and its fine) So this is kind of weird. She isnt a prude or anything but she wants things on her terms. We had a little argument about it she said she needs to wind down at night because of work and stuff I just said alright thats fine I said i feel like I want sophisticated girl but I want her to be a slut behind closed doors. When we had sex that night it was a little off she wanted me to talk dirty and I just didnt feel like it so I dont know why? she cancelled date on friday night I just said ok and I told her today I want to meetup on saturday before my show im in her area she hasn't replied. ADVICE?

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Also she told me she doesnt want relationship at moment vecausr of our situations which i am cool with.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

That her being in control thing sucks. Some of em do it, it could be how she is or it could be some pecking order bs. I wouldnt talk to her too much and keep it framed around having sex.

 

[Suspens]

Anyone getting annoyed by wolf's thread is a beta.


Answer to the OPs : No, if she does like you enough.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Thanks we'll i should hear back from her then we have sex every time we meet up i cant see why it would ruin. What if she doesnt reply to my text? Try tomorrow if no reply move on?? i kinda want an answer TBH if she doesnt want to anymore what do u guys do?

 

[zinc4]

Don't send any more text unless she replies, which obviously she will...if not screw her...I've been in a similar situation where the girl controlled things through sex...and padt one time a night was difficult which is weird looking back...

her il isnt that high unfortunately... But at least sje wanted u to talk dirty..should have tried her to the bed and ****ed her and *** all over face and then begin to withdraw attention after that...


She probably has some ex she never completely got over or some other guy guys....either way....do you really want a relationship like this even a fwb?.......I know your feeling man...but damn that will chip away at your pride and self respect.... Go focus on ones that will do anything to keep u...this one right now won't...unless maybe you can successfully reframe the situation which would be difficult to say the least...

 

[thelonewolflegend]

How do you do that? (reframe) what steps do i need to take

 

[thelonewolflegend]

I dont know she cancelled last weeks date now this saturday says shes with niece and nephew during day cant meetup anyone think she might try to avoid me now?

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

I dont know she cancelled last weeks date now this saturday says shes with niece and nephew during day cant meetup anyone think she might try to avoid me now?

That's what it sounds like. Back off and play with another friend for a while. Don't be mad, sometimes this is what people do. And if she told you she doesn't want to end up serious, perhaps this is her trying to enforce it.

 

[Infern0]

I mean ive been dating this girl for 6 months but a minor feeling inside maybe thinks this one night might of ruined it? I wouldnt know how or understand why it wouldnt make sense. I accidently came out complained about sex I wanted to have it more then once a night like few times i tried to be spontaneous she stopped me and wanted to be on phone i try to mess with her and she gets mad wants me to go shes on phone (ive seen guys mess with girls on phone before and its fine) So this is kind of weird. She isnt a prude or anything but she wants things on her terms. We had a little argument about it she said she needs to wind down at night because of work and stuff I just said alright thats fine I said i feel like I want sophisticated girl but I want her to be a slut behind closed doors. When we had sex that night it was a little off she wanted me to talk dirty and I just didnt feel like it so I dont know why? she cancelled date on friday night I just said ok and I told her today I want to meetup on saturday before my show im in her area she hasn't replied. ADVICE?

I don't really care about the nonsense interaction before the bolded, which was just you feeding into drama queen bs rather than deflecting it like you should have... but here we go AGAIN with the overpersuing. She cancels your date, "cool well let me know when you are free to get together" then you NEVER text her again unless she texts you. You of course messed this up asking to see her. weak.

Also she told me she doesnt want relationship at moment vecausr of our situations which i am cool with.

Why are you talking about a relationship? The fact she had to tell you she doesn't want one means you asked her about it. Weak, and also no you aren't cool with it which is why you posted about it.

Sort your head out or it's over.

I dont know she cancelled last weeks date now this saturday says shes with niece and nephew during day cant meetup anyone think she might try to avoid me now?

Yeah, she's dodging your weak ass. Back the **** off man, WAIT TO HEAR FROM HER, WAIT FOR HER TO ASK TO GET TOGETHER and stop acting like such a nuerotic weak *****

 

[crgideon]

One thing I have noticed since starting to follow the advice from this website, the texting sparingly angle seems to weed out the control freaks early on.

 

[Infern0]

One thing I have noticed since starting to follow the advice from this website, the texting sparingly angle seems to weed out the control freaks early on.

Yes and no, but a lot of people give advice to ignore messages for several hours or even days, personally I don't do that, i'll reply when I get a minute but its the initiating that most guys need to lose.

It's a fine balance from being a guy who initiates too much to playing games leaving it hours on end to reply to texts all the time. Better to just be genuine imo.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

She brought up relationship talk I NEVEr me tioned it we nust been fwb i compiled about sex because i want it more then once an interacton from her she didnt seem like she wants sex as much. I havent heard from her in a week so what was i suppose to do? I mean i want to have sex whata the deal she never want to? I know she ****ing somebody else i dont care just dont get why she avoid me and she told me shes a virgin and had a friend stalk my fb?

 

[zinc4]

Screw her man....I got a vigin who is acting distant now too...she wanted me to take her v card but I couldn't... **** was too soft to **** her not only once but twice...

So now she's playing a game of trying to force me to over pursue....but I won't...have some pride...

If u want sex go clubbing or get an escort....

Better yet go to a well known cougar bar in your area and you can't go wrong for sex....

 

[Infern0]

Good god...

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Well how do i let her know she should come and have sex with me??

 

[Alexandar]

Screw her man....I got a vigin who is acting distant now too...she wanted me to take her v card but I couldn't... **** was too soft to **** her not only once but twice...

So now she's playing a game of trying to force me to over pursue....but I won't...have some pride...

If u want sex go clubbing or get an escort....

Better yet go to a well known cougar bar in your area and you can't go wrong for sex....

good god..

lmao is this for real
good god is rite
snort blow much?

after your performance the least u could do is over pursue a bit, your pride is long gone:crackup:

 

[zinc4]

It's not my fault she couldn't make me hard enough...

 

[Alexandar]

lol point taken but, youre a guy, pretend shes some wh0re you always wanted to smash but never did

lonewolf, scroll up, this has been explained to you muiltiple times bro

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

It's not my fault she couldn't make me hard enough...

Let her suck you off first. It's kinda my normal ritual that they will prepare the majestic rod and extend it to maximum length before intiating penetration.