lol i love this one!!! im kinda in this situation but with some further knowledge i was able to start to fix it....lol
1.make a move...your unnatractive to any female when u dont make a move (period)
2.gauge her interest in you...if its low...approach her with humor....try to make her laugh...and you will get instant points...
Basically if you WANT her you have to do everything backwards SERIOUSLY
so if your scared to approach = approach her
you plan on being nice = don't be nice...tease her
your not making any moves = make a move
women find confidence extremely attractive...when your not confident....your unnatractive....period..