is it possible to get with a friend?

[Dotymite]

I just started trying to become a Don Juan so bear with me here.
I met this girl almost a year ago that I liked. But I was a moron and didn't know about this whole Don Juan thing, so I didn't think she'd ever date me and gave up before trying. I started talking to her and now we're friends. Just a few days ago her boy friend dumped her, I think because he was jealous of me and her talking a lot. Anyway I was just wondering if its possible to undo my previous blunder and get together with her.

 

[pbguru]

yeah it is possible, ive been through it. and honestly, id never do it again.

 

[Salacious D]

I think I'm in a similar situation, mon. I'm not incredibly good friends with this girl, but I've known her for about a year and a half. I like her as a friend already, and she likes me. I asked for her number almost exactly a year ago (I remember because it was on the last day of school heheh) and I got it. Not knowing of this site, I royally screwed things up. I called her the same day, we went to a movie about twenty minutes later. I didn't really speak to her at all beforehand, and after the movie I had to leave rather quickly. To top it all off, I further f*cked myself over by writing about how awesome I thought she was online, and one of my friends saw what I wrote, and sent it to her. I didn't say that I loved her, but I did say that I was really into her. Needless to say that ended things for me...and her.

Well after awhile I guess I lost the phone number. I lost interest in her even though we were friends, and then we both wound up in a play together. I found myself chatting to her often, and liking her more and more. So I'd like to re-initiate. Anyone think this is a good idea (I'm not so sure...), and if so, then how would you go about doing it?

And so I'm not a total f*ckhead by hijacking your thread, dotymite, I'd say go for it. If you don't go for it now you'll always wonder how things would have turned out, for better or for worse. Someone told me the same thing and I completely enchanted this one girl, then I decided I wasn't into her so I stopped talking to her completely. Heheh. I'm such an asswipe.

Later.

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by pbguru
yeah it is possible, ive been through it. and honestly, id never do it again.

I agree. At first it seems like a good idea and things are going very well and then...it happens...nothing seems to go right and you end up hurting your friendship more then anything else.

 

[pbguru]

or destroying a friendship (4+ yrs)....

eh, such is life.