Is it OK to Ask who that guy was

[Injess]

OK am new here, I read the book of pook and it changed my life. Anyways fast forward to getting a really hot girl I feel out of place most times but I don't wanna feel that way coz Iam worth so much more but Iam scared that if it ends she will instantly replace me while I have to you know start the search again . I don't want to feel this way or feel like this I want to feel good help

 

[Striker_93]

You're just inexperienced

What you worry about and fear needs to happen to you numerous times until you don't care anymore.

Just have fun and who gives a sh!t what happens.

You don't need advice, nobody here can make you have confidence or believe in yourself.

And No, don't ask "who that guy was"

You shouldn't even give a sh!t.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Needs more context. But in most cases, acting insecure will make her dry

 

[Gamisch]

OK am new here, I read the book of pook and it changed my life. Anyways fast forward to getting a really hot girl I feel out of place most times but I don't wanna feel that way coz Iam worth so much more but Iam scared that if it ends she will instantly replace me while I have to you know start the search again . I don't want to feel this way or feel like this I want to feel good help

Interestingly enough this post kinda sums up how 99 percent of men think.

This situation will result in more post about her being disrespectful,cheating ect ect as OP is already is scarcity mindset.

And yes you will be replaced in the blink of a eye, for sure. Are you worth so much more or are scared? It sounds contradicting.

Just enjoy and remember that it won't last forever . Take it 3 months at the time.

 

[zinc4]

OK am new here, I read the book of pook and it changed my life. Anyways fast forward to getting a really hot girl I feel out of place most times but I don't wanna feel that way coz Iam worth so much more but Iam scared that if it ends she will instantly replace me while I have to you know start the search again . I don't want to feel this way or feel like this I want to feel good help

Your question needs more context.

But if you are scared of losing her then you have already lost. Forget about how much you think you like her.

Focus on your fear and how you can evolve to overcome this fear because if not, you will continue to feel this way anytime you get involved with a hot woman.

Try to just have fun and relax. Nothing lasts forever. If you feel like she is disrespecting you though, don't hesitate to walk.

 

[Tilex]

This is a classic example of placing a chick on a pedestal.
We've all been there before.
It's always suggested on sosuave to have several women in your rotation, a.k.a spinning plates.
It reduces neediness and makes you more valuable.