You boys have to put down the books and tapes and LIVE LIFE. F*** up. Make a fool of yourself. Have highs and lows. Go discover the world. In other words, take advantage of what you have been blessed with. Believe it or not, in parts of this world beautiful girls will not laugh at you. Just do me one favor. Don't try and be Mr. Comedian. Nobody on here is THAT funny. Just become curious and be yourselves.
One of the great things about going to a place where there are not many tourists and where the native tongue is somewhat new to you is that it forces you to admit that you are different. You quit comparing yourself to those around you. Just about every dude on here is bland. If he wasn't he wouldn't be doing what every other guy on here is trying to do.