is confused good?

Big Eee Zee

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Long story short-I went out with a chick. We broke up, I started being a dj ()mystery, aloofness, etc) and she wanted me back. We have gotten back but never talked about it, It just happened. We have hooked up a few times, she said I love you (which is a big deal for either of us to say) and she is worried of what my friends think of her. So we are pretty much back together, but never out and said it. I found out she talked to a mutual friend last night and asked her if I had said anything about the two of us, because she was confused.

Now I know she is really into me, and things are going very well. I just wanted to know, is being confused a good thing? does that mean she can't read me, and will obsess about it, and in the end wind up even more into me? Or is confused a bad thing?
 

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doesnt sound like u need any help from us ... just keep doin what ur doin =) :up:
 

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thanks for the confidence boost.

Come on guys, I help all you out when I can. Anyone got any advice?
 

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confusion keeps the realationship intresting if she knows everything she will get bored.

Confusion is great it will keep her guessing and coming back to you trying to figure you out like a puzzle.

HAVE U EVER SEEN A GIRL WITH A RUBIX CUBE??? she wont give up till its done. So never let the confusion run out or the realationship will gets boring.

This is the same as Mysterious and we all know how good that works.
 

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Good advice. Confusing = mystery. You answered your own question. Keeps the relationship from getting boring.

Next time a girl tells me she's bored I want to throw her a rubix cube now, just to see if you're right lol.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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Confused is always good. It can be frustrating at times but always remember the more they resist what they really want the more attached they will get in the end.

Resistance is futile when faced with a true seducer.

It seems like alot of the women I meet the last couple of years resist me more BECAUSE they are attracted to me in turn the effort they put into that resistance causes them to be even more attracted.

It's a viscous cycle that they can not escape.
 
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