Is A Male Ever A Victim of Rape By A Female?

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Just curious as to what your thoughts are?

I think that if the guy is at least 15, NEVER!
 

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Yo, dude, wake and smell the bloody coffee, of course guys are victims of rape by females! What kind of fanasty world are you living in? :crazy:
 

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Juan_Man said:
Just curious as to what your thoughts are?

I think that if the guy is at least 15, NEVER!
Ok I don't want to sound gross or give your nightmares or anything, but just so you can understand...

Just imagine yourself being drugged up and tied up by some 50 year old fugly granny. And she plays with a beer bottle in your a** and jerks you off even though you are not liking it at all.

Would you consider it rape?:crackup:
 

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I think its harder for society to warp its brain around males getting raped but it does happen. I think its hard to prove because in order for a chick to rape you, you would have to be erect for that to happen (unless she fvcks you in the ass with an object while you are unconsious). So basically you can be drunk and pass out and still have an erection and some woman can bounce on your d1ck, but since you are the man and you are the penetrater your argument of being raped is usually tossed out the window in court. The arugment would probably be that its your fault "for not being responsible enough". Of coarse this argument would be valid if the reverse was female being raped by a male because she is usually the weaker one and she is the one being penetrated.
 

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Le Parisien said:
Ok I don't want to sound gross or give your nightmares or anything, but just so you can understand...

Just imagine yourself being drugged up and tied up by some 50 year old fugly granny. And she plays with a beer bottle in your a** and jerks you off even though you are not liking it at all.

Would you consider it rape?:crackup:

Nope. Sounds like a party to me.
 

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It can definitely happen. I know a guy it happened to.

He was at a party, and got incredibly drunk. He wakes up tied to the bed and this chick is all over him. He asks to be let go, she refuses, and proceeds to **** him, and hes so drunk that hes too weak to resist. She ****ed him so hard that it was hurting his ****, cuz she eventually stuck it in her ass without lube.

It can happen.:nono: :crazy:
 

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With the recent 'get tough on crime' madness, there are always a wide assortment of charges available to the prosecutor that are short of rape, like 'sexual assault,' even though it is rare. Regardless, the olde English tort of battery means 'unwanted touching,' which gives it wide application.
 

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A guy in Norway pressed charges against a female for raping him at a party. Apperantly this guy was so drunk that he fell asleep on the couch, the next morning he was awakned by a chick giving him a *******. So instead of busting a good sized nut on her face like any other male would do, he decided to press charges.
 

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DJDamage said:
So basically you can be drunk and pass out and still have an erection and some woman can bounce on your d1ck, but since you are the man and you are the penetrater your argument of being raped is usually tossed out the window in court. The arugment would probably be that its your fault "for not being responsible enough". Of coarse this argument would be valid if the reverse was female being raped by a male because she is usually the weaker one and she is the one being penetrated.
That phrase is HILARIOUS...but true.

I think I'm going to make it a bumper sticker.
 

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In theory it is definately possible because men can get unwanted erections and this should not mean they consent to sex.
In practice it would be quite difficult for a woman to rape a man as men are usually larger then woman.
This definately doesn't mean men aren't sometimes victims of heutrosexual rape
 

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i am with DJ damage on this one
 

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I remember a friend telling me of a hen party where women tied down a man while the drunken bride to be sucked his c0ck. The women found it hilarious and took photos, and then passed around the photos to colleagues over the following weeks thinking of it as some lighthearted prank.

It turns out the guy they violated was married with kids and his wife left him after she saw the photos. He apparently tried to press charges against the women, but it didn't even make it to court because the photos showed that he was erect and it would be difficult to prove he was not consenting.

I found that very disturbing. Just because it was a man being violated by women, it was perceived as a prank and people found it funny. Some people even thought he was a lucky guy. Disgusting.

I've had encounters with those kind of hen night slags who get in a group, get drunk and think they can go round groping men and making sleazy suggestions. I had a woman thrust a dildo in my mouth at club one night and I've been groped many times by these types. If the situation was reversed then I'd probably be facing a sentence for sexual assault now!
 

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The Truth said:
I've had encounters with those kind of hen night slags who get in a group, get drunk and think they can go round groping men and making sleazy suggestions. I had a woman thrust a dildo in my mouth at club one night and I've been groped many times by these types. If the situation was reversed then I'd probably be facing a sentence for sexual assault now!
You seem to be pretty proud of what happened. A woman who's been raped would NEVER admit it in a Discussion Forum even when asked. This is the difference. Your body and your mind are not negatively affected at all by these experiences, are they? This is not something that will hurt for the rest of your life, it's something you will laugh about with your friends.

I think that a man can be considered "raped" by a woman just when his @ss is violated against consent. Otherwise, it's just sexual assault.
 

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You seem to be pretty proud of what happened. A woman who's been raped would NEVER admit it in a Discussion Forum even when asked. This is the difference. Your body and your mind are not negatively affected at all by these experiences, are they?
I dont know why you think I am proud. It was humiliating! So while I wasn't physically hurt, I felt degraded and undermined so my mind was affected. My point was that nobody, male nor female has the right to impose themselves on you this way.
 

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Yes a guy can get raped, but not in the 'traditional' sense a loot of guys are associating this with. First you have to understand what rape does to a woman - it renders her powerless, it violates her physically and emotionally, it damages her psychologically and traumatically conditions her to associate sexuality with violence. There's a bit more, but you get the picture - it is an act that potentially has life altering consequences.

The only comparisson one can make for the male side one of birth fraud. This is the equivalent to male rape. When a woman maliciously and intentionally becomes pregnant in order to better control the emotions and life direction of a man it renders him powerless. Even worse is the mother who chooses the man best capable of sharing in her responsibilities of parental investment when he is in fact NOT the biological father. The emotional bonds that occur between the child and the pseudo-father, the financial and locational decisions involved, pluss the emotional & psychological distress are life altering. While physical rape is certainly traumatic and damaging, birth fraud is the gift that keeps on giving for a man.
 

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Anyone who has engaged in sexual activity would know how difficult it is to ejaculate if you don't find any pleasure in the encounter. If you release, are you really a victim?
 

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Juan_Man said:
Anyone who has engaged in sexual activity would know how difficult it is to ejaculate if you don't find any pleasure in the encounter. If you release, are you really a victim?
Last time I checked, you don't need the victim to have actually come to make a rape case, valid for both male and female victims.
And most likely, when you get raped, you don't enjoy it and don't come, whether you are a guy or a girl.:nono: Unless you actually like being raped...

Juan_Man, maybe you have rape fantasies or something...:crazy:
 

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Le Parisien said:
Last time I checked, you don't need the victim to have actually come to make a rape case, valid for both male and female victims.
And most likely, when you get raped, you don't enjoy it and don't come, whether you are a guy or a girl.:nono:

I think that's what he's saying, man. He's asking when you are raped against your will and for some reason you come (for example, if she's giving you a blow job and she's extremely good at it), could a court consider that "rape"?
 

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I think that's what he's saying, man. He's asking when you are raped against your will and for some reason you come (for example, if she's giving you a blow job and she's extremely good at it), could a court consider that "rape"?
I think it's quite clear on this topic: rape involves forceful coercion. Whether the victim has an orgasm, male or female, is totally irrelevent.

I think he genuinely has some rape fantasy or he's naively dreaming about being "raped" by some twenty something hot hot highschool teacher, like the recent Florida hot blond teacher who had sex with a 14-year old...:rolleyes: Only it was statutory rape, not "real" rape, the young kid was completely consenting and he was more than enjoying the rides...:whistle:
 

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Le Parisien said:
I think it's quite clear on this topic: rape involves forceful coercion. Whether the victim has an orgasm, male or female, is totally irrelevent.

I think he genuinely has some rape fantasy or he's naively dreaming about being "raped" by some twenty something hot hot highschool teacher, like the recent Florida hot blond teacher who had sex with a 14-year old...:rolleyes: Only it was statutory rape, not "real" rape, the young kid was completely consenting and he was more than enjoying the rides...:whistle:
Haha, not really. I was just thinking about the whole thing and wondered what others thought. But I must admit, these recent stories about hot female teachers-rapists makes me wish I can go back to junior high.
 

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