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Is 12 miles too far to date?

djthiago1

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Been thinking about dating this cool girl, she lives 12 miles away from my house, google maps says it's 28 min away. Is that too far?
Date or next?
 

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seriously? 12 miles and you have to ask? Anything within an hr I say is doable. 45 minutes and under is much more preferred.

Ive dated women 40 miles away...trust me 12 miles is just peachy.
 

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Jaylan said:
seriously? 12 miles and you have to ask? Anything within an hr I say is good. Preferably within 40 minutes.
I wouldn't know. My ex lived like 5min away and she was the only gf i had.
 

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djthiago1 said:
I wouldn't know. My ex lived like 5min away and she was the only gf i had.
Im guessing you are young. When I was younger (under 20) that was the only time I had a girl I was dating live so close. Its good and bad. Good because early on you get to see them a lot and hook up a lot, and get to know her well. Soon though youre not giving one another enough space, and you dont feel like you have an area to call your own.

Any distance within an hour should be fine. If you can easily see a girl once a week, its no problem. Have fun!
 

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12 miles is nothing dude. Your good to go.
 

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12 miles is perfect.
 

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If I wasn't willing to go 12 miles from where i live I'd be stuck fvcking cows as in cow cows not fat human female cows. 12 miles is nothing. If it worries you tell her its kinda far but you will be in the area already anyway for reason XYZ.
 

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I once drove 60 miles to bang a HB8. Then never saw her again. Perfect.
 

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This is a perfect distance. 30 min requires both of you to put in a minimal effort but effort none the less. Should help govern the speed of the dating and relationship. My FB lives 40 min away. Other girl I was seeing, 1hr. I like it a little far. They wont so easily pass by and interupt or gather intel.
 

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Jesus, I'm 80 minutes away from my GF. 12 miles is NOTHING.
 

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Depends on where you live. Here in L.A., 12 miles could easily be an hour in traffic during most of the day. We always joke here that if someone lives near the airport and another person lives in Hollywood - about 12 miles away - that they'd never date because it would be "too far." But overall, it shouldn't make a difference - I've had girls who would happily make an hour and a half long trek to see me. It just makes it harder to want to stay faithful to them - the closer they are, the easier it is to see them.
 

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fu@k no bro, sh@t i bet u drive 12 miles to go buy sh@t for ur clothes or go see a movie or a concert. 12 miles for a chick....sh@t man that aint nothin.
 
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