Irresponsible Sexual Behaviour

[WORKEROUTER]

Does anyone else get in the heat of the moment and then have irresponsible sex with a girl?

And by irresponsible, I mean no protection.

I have finally made a vow to STOP this kind of behaviour from now on.

So far, I've been VERY lucky. I use to f*ck my ex-gf a couple months ago MULTIPLE times per month without a condom, AND ejaculate into her. Keep in mind she was not on any kind of birth control. Luckily, she never became pregnant.

I was banging this other broad, AGAIN, without a condom. One time I accidently didn't pull out in time. Fortunately, she's on the shot. Still, it got me worried.

Then I f*cked this other girl, who was a virgin btw, and didn't pull out fast enough. The next day we were getting emergency contraception.

Recently though, I HAVE been using condoms EVERYTIME, even though I hate how they feel. I consider myself lucky so far.

The point is that I was lucky, but that's about it. For any of you guys having sex or planning on it, USE PROTECTION...FORCE YOURSELF.

For some guys, like me, who get very caught up in the moment, it is easier said than done...BUT USE PROTECTION.

If I got a girl pregnant and she refused to get an abortion, a big damper would be put on all aspects of my life. And that goes for anyone. And I am not even talking about the ethical aspects of it all.

 

[blinkwatt]

NO GLOVE NO LOVE

 

[Climax]

WORKEROUTER: at least u are learning from ur mistakes BEFORE it is too late... well done Keep it up!


Laterz...

 

[Deep Dish]

A little while ago I asked myself the question that if I had to choose between getting genital herpes or getting a girl pregnant, which would I prefer, and hands down I'd rather get genital herpes than the disease of an unwanted kid.

 

[Prophett]

at least you can grow to love a kid, u can't grow to love ****in herpes !

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by Prophett
at least you can grow to love a kid, u can't grow to love ****in herpes !

Yes, but herpes will not repeatedly attempt to flush a Mister Potato Head down the toilet until there is two inches of water on the floor.

Herpes will not take off its diaper and smear sh*t all over its face like it's war paint.

Herpes will not unplug your computer while you're in the middle of a huge term paper for school.

Herpes will not light fireworks in its room.

Herpes will not scribble all over the wall in ink.

I love kids -- and I have four of them to love now and one who is gone. But if you're the kind that doesn't want kids... herpes is definitely the better bet. Herpes is easy to deal with. Herpes doesn't keep you awake at night or call you at 2:30 am to say it has wrecked your car. Herpes just comes around once a year or so and says, "Hey, what's up, motherf*cka? Remember me? Just thought I'd crash at your place for a couple of days! Don't mind me none." And then you have a mildly painful sore for a few days and then it's gone for a while.

 

[Deep Dish]

Prophett said:
At least you can grow to love a kid, u can't grow to love ****in herpes !

Genital herpes is a relatively minor skin nuisance. The symptoms are so minor that nine out of ten people don't know they have it. Many who are infected only have an outbreak the days after getting infected but then never show symptoms again. For the people who do show symptoms, they are inconvenienced only a few days out of the year. Genital herpes doesn't really do your body any other harm. So, if you get a disease that doesn't really hurt your body, which is so minor that barely anyone notices, what's the big deal?

On the other hand, there is the disease of having an unwanted kid. It has been estimated it costs $100,000 to (properly) raise a kid over eighteen years. That is in the ballpark of $460 a month... every month... every god damn month... for eighteen years. And how things often go, that kid isn't remotely near your life, off in Florida somewhere, with the mother not wanting you anywhere near her child. Yet you still pay. It is a (nearly) unending rash with ten times the frequency and 460 times the severity of herpes.

I'd rather take the 90% chance with genital herpes being so minor I'd never realize it (or if I was so unlucky, deal with its minor symptoms), than the 100% chance of the disease of an unwanted kid. It's a no-brainer.

 

[tristan22]

My mom sees patients daily with herpes-- and herpes is a lot worse then you describe deep dish. Herpes even grows on ones a$$ crack. Some people have to get the warts burned off. It's not pleasant, from what my mother tells me.

 

[WillieSacks]

I was with a girl that had oral herpes for a while a year ago. Oral herpes wasn't even a big deal. The only time it was a big deal was when she had an outbreak around her lips and it was my first time seeing anything like that, I just didn't kiss her for the 4-5 days she had the outbreak and then it was back to normal. I never caught it and it was never a big deal after that first time, she probably had 2 maybe 3 outbreaks that year. I was never an issue. Just don't kiss her or have her go down on you when she has an outbreak.

 

[StrangeButTrue]

You know it can be transmitted even not during an outbreak right? Better get checked.

 

[Deep Dish]

Originally posted by tristan22
My mom sees patients daily with herpes-- and herpes is a lot worse then you describe deep dish. Herpes even grows on ones a$$ crack. Some people have to get the warts burned off. It's not pleasant, from what my mother tells me.

I said that for nine out of ten people with genital herpes the symptoms are so subtle that they do not realize they have it, either because they are truly asymptomatic or the symptoms are so minor (sources: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5) (Note how I even cite the Centers for Disease Control and National Institute of Health). I said that for the ten percent remainder, genital herpes is left as a relative nuisance, causing discomfort but not doing the body any serious damage, just being a pain on the ass, so to speak. According to the National Institute of Health, while the first episode of gential herpes—for that ten percent of people who show symptoms—may be bad, "any future outbreaks are usually mild." The only time herpes seems to pose any significant threat is for individuals with weak immune systems and it’s potentially fatal to babies (according to the Centers for Disease Control). Bear in mind that the patients your mother sees daily is not representative of the general infected population, but only the people somewhere within that ten percent who had herpes so bad that they sought treatment.

 

[thefonz]

I got my HIV test on tuesday......should get the results in another week

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by Deep Dish
Bear in mind that the patients your mother sees daily is not representative of the general infected population, but only the people somewhere within that ten percent who had herpes so bad that they sought treatment.

If she's talking about "burning off" stuff, either she's not talking about herpes or she's a really, really bad nurse.

 

[penkitten]

its warts that has to be bruned off not herpes

herpes disappears , its like bad reoccuring chicken pox

 

[familyguyfan]

Originally posted by tristan22
My mom sees patients daily with herpes-- and herpes is a lot worse then you describe deep dish. Herpes even grows on ones a$$ crack. Some people have to get the warts burned off. It's not pleasant, from what my mother tells me.

She tells you that because she doesn't want you to have sex.

 

[undesputable]

Originally posted by WORKEROUTER


So far, I've been VERY lucky. I use to f*ck my ex-gf a couple months ago MULTIPLE times per month without a condom, AND ejaculate into her. Keep in mind she was not on any kind of birth control. Luckily, she never became pregnant.

wow are you lucky!!!

 

[JohnJones]

Originally posted by Deep Dish

On the other hand, there is the disease of having an unwanted kid. It has been estimated it costs $100,000 to (properly) raise a kid over eighteen years. That is in the ballpark of $460 a month... every month... every god damn month... for eighteen years.

That seems kind of low to me. My kids cost $3,000/mo

 

[King of You]

jeez you people make it sound like herpes is such a great thing. makes me almost want to have it

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by King of You
jeez you people make it sound like herpes is such a great thing. makes me almost want to have it

Herpes is not a great thing, but it is not the end of the world, either.