IOIs? Or just overly friendly? Confusing Girl...

[Seeking Advice]

There's a girl at school who i dig, i believe she digs me too... But i'm not so sure. When we talk, she shows some IOIs like eye contact, likes to tease me, kino (pretty much all the flirty stuff), but from what i've seen, she's quite friendly with all the guys. Because we dont have any classes together, it's hard for me to find a time to talk to her, and it's even harder during lunch or recess when she's with a whole group of her friends which makes it awkward for me to just walk up and start talking. I'm not super popular, but i have my fair share of popular friends so i dont think that's a problem... And so this leaves me wondering, does this girl like me or is she just playing around? And how should i go about towards getting to know her better? Please help me out Don Juans...

 

[jeffthechef]

ok...if you're new to this site..this is what i would say
it's not an IOI if you have to question it...IOI's are things that you know instinctively...she could be looking at your face wondering how unattractive you are...she could have said hi to get your hopes up..maybe she sat next to you because there were no other seats..maybe she smiled your way because there was an alpha behind you...
Instincts...
now after awhile...you should fuk IOI'S completely

once you're an alpha..you shouldn't need to know she likes you before you approach..you should instinctively do it because you're a man...you attain what you so desire....but don't desire..dont attach yourself..attachment leads to suffering..but yoiu get the point

 

[WalkingStick]

Kino her and you will have an answer.

 

[suaveplayer]

yea u gotta watch out for these girls: sometimes they throw out a lot of IOIs and flirt unintentionally. But why not just test it out? they probably wont reject you anyway.

 

[Seeking Advice]

Thanks for the input guys. I still have quite some way to go until i get to alpha stage... I'll def try to start a decent conversation with her so i can apply kino, then i'll find out if she's playing me or not.

 

[Seeking Advice]

Just some more background info for you guys. I was talking to her fine before i started to like her, now when i try to initiate conversation it's usually boring, and i cant think of anything to say... This happens with all the girls i find attractive, it's a lot easier to be smooth with the chicks i'm not interested in... A friend of hers told me yesterday that she USED to have a crush on me before, but has now gotten over it. This was about the start of the year, and now that i think of it there were heaps of IOIs that she showed me (a f**kload of kino, always trying to talk to me) but i was so damn AFC i didnt notice. If she's gotten over it, does that mean she'll never see me as a potential bf again? Is all hope lost? I didnt really want her then but i do now...

 

[jeffthechef]

heh fuk no....she hasn't gotten over you..she's just moved on to other options but you're still there...you're on her list but simply further down..think about it..don't you do it too? you say o this girl is throwin some IOI's and you put her up on your list...she doesn't respond..it gets boring...she stops ioi'ing you..you move her down...

she probably "got over you" because you didnt respond to her ioi's...girls do it all the time...recently..i've picked up on a few girls..one girl is in the library 2 minutes after i go in everytime i go and sits right next to me and sends many ioi's..another one used to ioi me freshman year..now she initiates the conversation everytime i see her...i mean...ioi's are so easy to spot and sense...thing is..YOU HAVE TO ACT ON THEM.

Be an alpha and do it...

 

[Seeking Advice]

Thanks a lot man, that was some good advice. Tomorrow when i see her at school, i'll start talking to her and try to get some decent kino in

 

[LadiesMan2117]

bump.