Invited a girl to a party, got with another girl. Original girl saw me, what to do?

[kindasuave]

I was going to a party tonight and invited a girl who is really cute and I like (who i have gotten with, but a few weeks ago). She said that she'd run it by her friends and might come by. I was at the party for like 45 min and she didn't come so I said to myself, **** it, and started hitting on other girls, assuming that she wouldn't come.

I am making out with a random girl when this original girl who I texted comes by. I look up and see her standing right next to me and she sees me and we awkwardly say hi while i am making out with this girl.

What do I do now because I really like this original girl and I thought she wasn't going to come so I was hitting on random girls. Obviously I'm not going out with her so I can do whatever I want, but still its an annoying situation. Possibly it could be good in the long run because she could get jealous?

I'm thinking of sending a text tomorrow, being like "hey lets watch a movie tonight, I really want to see you" and see what she says..

Please help me out guys

 

[Igetit!]

I was going to a party tonight and invited a girl who is really cute and I like. She said that she'd run it by her friends and might come by. I was at the party for like 45 min and she didn't come so I said to myself, **** it, and started hitting on other girls, assuming that she wouldn't come.

You did the RIGHT THING.


You invited her out cause you wanted to see her,you like the girl. Ok,who did you run it by first? Did you go to some of your friends and get their take on whether you should invite her out or not?



No. You're a man and made a decision all on your own. This chick...you invited her out to a party and she told you she'd go run it by her friends first.

So what if they had said no....you wouldn't have been able to see her? If she's gonna put her dating/social life in the hands of other people,I don't see how you're going to be able to date her with her having to run things by her friends first.


Personally....I think her seeing you make out with another chick is the BEST DHV (higher value) you could have hoped for. Pre-selection. She saw that you ARE DESIRED by other females,and that in turn should increase HER INTEREST in you.


And another thing.....you asked her out,she had her chance. She was your FIRST CHOICE. It was her indecisiveness that lead to what happened. Besides,what were you supposed to do,put your dating life on hold until she came to a decision? Stop pursuing other girls until you heard back from her?


You asked her out. Personally,if I don't get a "yes",I'm out. I DON'T DO....

"maybe"
"might"
"I don't know"
"we'll see"
"I need to think about it"

..or any of that sh1t. It's "yes",or I'm out.....PERIOD.


If she needs time to think about it,or has to "run it by her friends" first,she can run it by EVERY FRIEND she has,and take ALL THE TIME she needs. And while she's doing that,I'd be doing the same thing you did.....pursuing other chicks.


I bet the girl you made out with didn't have to ok the makeout with her friends first.



You wanna ask out the original chick again....DO IT. Don't bring up you kissing the other girl. If she brings it up,tell her it's none of her business.

 

[seethehoop]

I agree with Igetit but i wouldn't ask her out. That's your guilt messing with you, you think you have messed it up so you think that by asking her out and saying you want to see her she will see this like an apology, forgive you and agree to meet. What i think her female logic will do is see right through this then think that you do have something to feel guilty about and then punish you by rejecting you, this will also be a defence mechanism for her so she doesn't feel rejected.

Leave her a few days, she will prob contract you, if not send her a message but don't say you want to see her, ask her out in a way that doesn't show you have anything to apologise for.