I recently started seeing this gal about a month ago, I had been acquainted with her for a few years though through mutual friends. The thing is shes a little older than me, shes 31 and I'm 23. What happened was that I had some interest in her and I found out through one of her good friends that she was interested in me. I also found out she usually doesn't date guys under 30
One night I finally got up the guts to go talk to her and we ended up chatting the night away til the bar closed, she then asked me If I was gonna be in town the next night and that she might see me at the bar. The next night I went there and she was there. We ended up hanging out there til the bar closed again and afterwards I asked her to join me for breakfast at a restaurant 30 miles away. She said sure and offered to take her car since I was in a big pickup that made terrible mileage. So we went and when we got thereI ordered and then she didn't order a thing, just a glass of water. We sat there and laughed at all the drunks that came in and then she took me back to my vehicle. I asked for her phone number and she gave me a deposit slip out of her checkbook, which I thought was a little odd for someone to just give out, and I also gave her my number and e-mail.
about 3 days later she e-mailed me to see how my week was going and so I gave her a call and asked her out to supper, and she accepted.
on the night of the date, a friday, things went well and at the end of the night I kissed her and she looked at me and then kissed me again and told me we need to do this again and we also agreed on me coming over sunday afternoon before I left town.
on sunday we got to talking and she started talking about wanting to take it slow, which was no problem at all for me.
I tried calling her 3 days later to say hi and that I was gonna be in town on saturday, she wasn't home, no big deal, I tried again the next night, no answer, and the next day I sent her an e-mail, which she did respond to, saying shed been taking care of her grandmother and not getting home til late.
anyways, the next weekend I felt like getting outta town and got ahold of her and we met at the bar, but I noticed something, shes not the same when we are at the bar as when its just the 2 of us, could that be because shes around her friends? when I put my arm around her to tell her goodbye she did not hug back.
The next night I went to the bar and she was there helping whenever she wasn't busy she sat across the bar from me and she always refused my tips, telling me I didn't need to tip her, but she took tips from everyone else....is this good or bad?
the the thing I don't know is how interested in me is she, I've never dated someone this much older than me, but I do find her real interesting and don't want to mess this up.....any help would be good
One night I finally got up the guts to go talk to her and we ended up chatting the night away til the bar closed, she then asked me If I was gonna be in town the next night and that she might see me at the bar. The next night I went there and she was there. We ended up hanging out there til the bar closed again and afterwards I asked her to join me for breakfast at a restaurant 30 miles away. She said sure and offered to take her car since I was in a big pickup that made terrible mileage. So we went and when we got thereI ordered and then she didn't order a thing, just a glass of water. We sat there and laughed at all the drunks that came in and then she took me back to my vehicle. I asked for her phone number and she gave me a deposit slip out of her checkbook, which I thought was a little odd for someone to just give out, and I also gave her my number and e-mail.
about 3 days later she e-mailed me to see how my week was going and so I gave her a call and asked her out to supper, and she accepted.
on the night of the date, a friday, things went well and at the end of the night I kissed her and she looked at me and then kissed me again and told me we need to do this again and we also agreed on me coming over sunday afternoon before I left town.
on sunday we got to talking and she started talking about wanting to take it slow, which was no problem at all for me.
I tried calling her 3 days later to say hi and that I was gonna be in town on saturday, she wasn't home, no big deal, I tried again the next night, no answer, and the next day I sent her an e-mail, which she did respond to, saying shed been taking care of her grandmother and not getting home til late.
anyways, the next weekend I felt like getting outta town and got ahold of her and we met at the bar, but I noticed something, shes not the same when we are at the bar as when its just the 2 of us, could that be because shes around her friends? when I put my arm around her to tell her goodbye she did not hug back.
The next night I went to the bar and she was there helping whenever she wasn't busy she sat across the bar from me and she always refused my tips, telling me I didn't need to tip her, but she took tips from everyone else....is this good or bad?
the the thing I don't know is how interested in me is she, I've never dated someone this much older than me, but I do find her real interesting and don't want to mess this up.....any help would be good