Interesting Point My Friend Thought Of

[RockaRolla25]

My friend doesn't come on sosuave but I was telling him about it.

I told him a common theme is, "A woman can get sex anytime she wants. But, it's harder for men."

He said, "But, the men that the women go to for sex are getting it very easily too, right? It's not just the women."

I never thought of that before. What do you guys think about this?

If a woman can just choose any man to have sex with, then this means men ARE getting it very easily too. So, why does this website say that it is much easier for a woman to get it anytime she wants?

 

[Eternal_water]

Because the very rare guy that a woman actually approaches for sex is the 1 guy every other woman is approaching for sex.

That means that 1 man, not men, can get sex easily. They will not approach a single other guy.

Whereas guys have to approach as many as possible because they will have a high rejection rate.

Of course, the 1 guy who can have any girl will have any girl and won't reject her.




It is definately easier for girls to get sex,

 

[nismo-4]

OP, your friend is right as hell.

Of course a woman can get sex anytime she wants.

Many men ask, but all the women have to do is say yes or no. It's like a job interview.

Women also want something from men, and will use the promise of sex to get it, even if they have no intention of going through with it. :kick:

In real life, particularly in the western world, women of all ages have this sense of entitlement thanks to the media and feminism. As in, they're gonna hold out for a muscular millionaire. Someone who's in the top 10% of men. All the while pegging most other men as friends or gay.

Men have to do most of the approaching. Therefore, women sex who they WANT. Men sex who they CAN.

Women hold the sex card (Absolutely) and men hold the relationship card (laughable at best), but it's not equal. A woman can get sex as fast as you can read this post. Most men couldn't get a relationship with a woman within 2 weeks of trying.

 

[bigneil]

Not all sex is created equal.

A woman only finds that 1 in 1000 guy as often as a man finds that 1 in 1000 woman.

Her behavior is normalized based on availability. It doesn't mean she likes the easy sex she can get. In fact, this is exponential - she becomes 10 times pickier if she has 5 times as many choices.

When she does like a man she gives it up instantly and then he has the upper hand - for a time - until the honeymoon phase wears off and she starts recording his every flaw on her permanent list. We still want to be that man so later we know what we're missing. Also remember: the earlier you get her, the better. Anyone after you has a slightly older, slightly more used woman, and if two men are equal the one who got her first is better in her mind.

 

[Kenny Powers]

I dont think a girl who wants sex just walks into a bar, picks out the best looking guy and goes home with him. Sure that happens, but most girls are too insecure to pick-up a guy in a bar. They might try to make eye contact or flirt but few are doing cold approaches like we. Most girls have so many guy friends that they'll just get with one of them, a fvck buddy or an ex.

In my experience girls tend to go for guys they know and are more comfortable with. ONS still happen but most attractive girls have too many options for sex to feel the need to bother getting with a stranger which can take more "effort" on their part than they are willing to put in. Also, getting with a stranger can be "risky" in numerous ways - guy could reject her, he be bad in bed, have an STD, be clingly, etc.

If a girl does want sex, she's still gonna make the guy work for it to a degree to prove he's worthy, make herself feel like less of a wh0re, boost her ego, and because doing so just comes naturally.

Haven't you ever seen an ok looking guy at a bar with a hot girl? He got her instead of all the better looking guys there because he didn't just meet her that night. They have a pre-existing relationship of some sort that makes her feel more connected to and comfortable with him and thus more attracted to him as a sexual partner.

Just my thoughts on the subject