Interesting article on dating

[eli77]

There's actually a good dating trend out there and it's called 'hardballing'

Relationship expert Susan Winter says that "hardballing" is a great way to put your needs first.

www.today.com

 

[Plinco]

The problem with this is that it assumes that both parties will be honest. Women often will say they want one thing, but really want something else.

Imo there's nothing better than getting to know someone and talking to them face to face.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Hey man the best advice I ever had was not to take advice about dating from women.

 

[BadBoy89]

Winter shared an example of a woman who may be concerned about her fertility timeline.

"I know that this may seem odd, but I need to tell you, I want to have a family and as a female, I have a timeline in which to do that so I don’t have the luxury to date a guy for fun," she said as an example. "I'm not an anxious attacher. I'm not neurotic. I'm not insecure. I'm a woman who would like to have a natural biological family and I can only allow myself to enter relationships with a partner who wants the same thing."

“Thank you for being so honest. Just curious, what did you with the guys when you had the luxury of dating them for fun?”

 

[eli77]

thats why i never spent more than 20 dollars on a date!

 

[Zimbabwe]

All this article is, is another feminine imperative manipulation tactic.

Most men have the position of initiator, which will always ensure most women will have a major advantage when it comes to getting a date. Whether these are ‘quality’ men or not, and even if the experience is not enjoyable, still does not take away from the foundation of my argument. When you’re not in somebody else's shoes, you very likely do not have the ability to understand any related dilemma in an objective manner.