Just insulted my LTR in public. ( it was a real bad one) She went totally nuts and we left the restaurant without even eating the food that came. She was crying uncontrollably all the way to her home....
And now im in **** obviously.
i told her i thought she was a cheap slut from the day i met her and she has only reinforced this opinion which was pretty cruel and uncalled for.
It was a special day and she was in a mood that was typical female behaviour. In my mind i was like NOT TODAY!! dont follow "the book" for just today. And i got frustrated and just blurted it out. since she always says thats what im thinkin
I think she really felt it was the unhappiest day in her life and that she would now never want to see me again.
she made me promise and begged me to never look for her again..... to let her lead her happy life without me judging her all the time ( yeah i was judgemental)
I really feel guilty though since it really was my fault and any ideas on how to make her feel better would be useful.
Im also leaving the country next week so i would like for me to leave on a pleasant not with both of us happy.
Im only asking for advice on how to resolve the situation though. ( cause i know everyone would just start to post questions on why did i say that or what a bad boy i was, its just a lot to type out so i kept it short, but if you can't think of any strategies or techniques and have this really great urge to post your point of view, sure you can do so . Tactics that would actually work would be better though.
Any advice would be useful thanks
BTW its advice to make her feel better
And now im in **** obviously.
i told her i thought she was a cheap slut from the day i met her and she has only reinforced this opinion which was pretty cruel and uncalled for.
It was a special day and she was in a mood that was typical female behaviour. In my mind i was like NOT TODAY!! dont follow "the book" for just today. And i got frustrated and just blurted it out. since she always says thats what im thinkin
I think she really felt it was the unhappiest day in her life and that she would now never want to see me again.
she made me promise and begged me to never look for her again..... to let her lead her happy life without me judging her all the time ( yeah i was judgemental)
I really feel guilty though since it really was my fault and any ideas on how to make her feel better would be useful.
Im also leaving the country next week so i would like for me to leave on a pleasant not with both of us happy.
Im only asking for advice on how to resolve the situation though. ( cause i know everyone would just start to post questions on why did i say that or what a bad boy i was, its just a lot to type out so i kept it short, but if you can't think of any strategies or techniques and have this really great urge to post your point of view, sure you can do so . Tactics that would actually work would be better though.
Any advice would be useful thanks
BTW its advice to make her feel better