Can't take credit for this, but I thought it was interesting:
From the March 2003 Men's Health Magazine...
"There she is, sitting at the end of the bar, looking hot, looking so out of your league. You approach her praying she won't blow you off.
Instant rejection! predicts Jama Clark, PhD., author od "What the Hell do Women really Want?" If you're worried about what she'll think of you, you won't appear confident, Clark says. Confident people tend to think "Will I like them?"
This psychology can be applied to any social or business occasion. The next time you meet someone new, think, "I wonder if I'm going to like this person." Changing your mindset will transform your body language and speech from timid and self-conscious to friendly and self-assured.
From the March 2003 Men's Health Magazine...
"There she is, sitting at the end of the bar, looking hot, looking so out of your league. You approach her praying she won't blow you off.
Instant rejection! predicts Jama Clark, PhD., author od "What the Hell do Women really Want?" If you're worried about what she'll think of you, you won't appear confident, Clark says. Confident people tend to think "Will I like them?"
This psychology can be applied to any social or business occasion. The next time you meet someone new, think, "I wonder if I'm going to like this person." Changing your mindset will transform your body language and speech from timid and self-conscious to friendly and self-assured.