Well, guys in all honesty I'm depressed. My ex left me for an ex. To make things worse she has my kid. I took a couple mins today an realized I'm going down the same path I did when I divorced. So I thought like a female friend of mine. I saught to inspire myself. I know people an things are slow to change. With that in mind I seek to inspire myself to excellence. I can inspire myself by knowing I'm better than him or her. I inspire myself by knowing I'll have more money success an overall happiness. I inspire myself by knowing I have a great career and business savvy. I inspire myself by saying you were the fool who let a great man go. I inspire myself by knowing I'm a great catch. I inspire myself knowing I can look down on her; when she will need me the most. 60 days of no contact starts today.