Inner-Game Help !!

[dicod3r]

I've done my reading and I know enough (indirect style) to open random girls and get solid attraction, #'s, make-outs (the rare ONS), and dates here and there. But there is a problem that I've just realized....

All the girls that I am getting are 7's, maybe an occasional 8 but NEVER above that... and the underlying problem is i truly believe I don't deserve women of this caliber =( It is a true belief ! I started reading 7 habits of success and started trying to visualize me gaming girls like this or what it'd be like to have a girl like this on my arm and I can't even imagine it. It's hard to even visualize it?

It sounds stupid, but how do I break out of this belief that girls that hot, could or want to be with a guy like me!? My self-esteem is I guess average and I believe I'm valuable, but for a 9 or 10 I've definitely taken the 'red pill' and believe the societal taboo that these girls want male models or bulky work out guys or rich guys, or guys with lots of social value ect....

Do I just need to get field experience approaching 9's and 10's to break my thought-process, and maybe have success? Or should I just concentrate on building my life outside of women, or what ?? I hear "get your inner game tight" but exactly how do you do that !? Affirmations? Hypnosis? LoL please help!

 

[dicod3r]

Right, its just how to un-brainwash this ?? How do you handle it !

 

[Dannyrt34]

Weird. I'm the complete opposite. I can talk to hot girls no problem but with the less attractive ones, I get real nervous. I think I do because I'm afraid they'll like me.

Danny can't have that.

 

[chinwaggler]

This is one of the first rules of pick-up, don't put women on a pedestal.

Firstly, looks aren't rare. How many 9s or 10s do you see on a night out? Quite a few I'll bet.

If you don't believe you are good enough, raise your value. But don't think of them as these untouchable beings, they live off men thinking like that, so don't do it.

 

[tucking fypo]

dont jack off for 7 days and watch porn everyday and the next 10 youll see, youll feel sorry for her instead of yourself =P

 

[Snow Plowman]

There just HUMAN...

You'll understand when your hanging out with chicks who are real HOT, because you'll start hearing about there period and how much it STINKS!!! You'll see there dirt stained tubs, etc.

I remember once my wing saw me with two turkish hotties and he stated that he'd be nervous talking to them...THEY STINKED, SMELLED LIKE SH!T and I told him how much these chicks stinked, despite being probably the hottest chicks in the venue...

I once approached a model who's breat slightly stinked, but after being with them for awhile you REALLY NOTICE, there human just like every other chick, the reason your nervous is because you have this whole HOTNESS SCALE, drop that ****. Your already putting value on her...

One of my wings had a chick he thought was a 5 so he didn't want to fuk her at first, but people were telling him he needs sexual experiences so he should just do it, he NEVER PULLED because he started bumping her up the scale to a 6.5 and then talked about how amazing her body was...Now all of a sudden he wanted to **** her but he was so outcome dependent now...PERCEPTION is PROJECTION...

P.S...The Turkish chicks didn't actuall smell, I just told him that to point out how differnet he seen the situation, because he was no longer nervous because there value in his eyes had dropped...It shocked him to see how quickly he dropped that whole belief of being nervous just because he thought she actually stinked.

P.S.S...Me personally I wouldn't fuk a chick just cause she is hot, there are billions of women out there, MILLIONS of them are HOT and I can fuk a million women in my lifetime so I can SCREEN hard and make sure these chicks meet my requirements of what a cool chick is, meaning LOOKS ISN'T A FACTOR when I decide if I'm actually going to fuvk her...At the same time I wouldn't even be thinking of a chick on a sexual level if I didn't find her attractive.

 

[dicod3r]

Thanks for the replies guys.

I think just immersion in experience and jumping out of my comfort level will help me with this, but usually to go pick up I need to look nice to feel confident. Are you guys the type that just wake up and you're like, "I'm the ****!!" ??

If I don't have a fresh hair-cut and nice clothes on, I feel inadequate. I'm trying to break this feeling, this inner low-self-esteem. Any tips on breaking my thought process ?? How did you guys do it, to become confident and believing you are a prize to be won ? Any specific things, or just life experience.

I'm just lost on how to 'better myself'. Realistically I'm pretty average, average looks, average career, average life, but i'm young 24 and have time to change it around to be unique and excel, just need some advice on how to get there.

Again, this includes women but deeper in really changing your own core attitudes and beliefs.