narcissist
Master Don Juan
Break up with your chick and start your journey
I have realized something today.
I have realized that a lot of men on this forum and out in the real world need to break up with their monogamous partner. Why you may ask?
Because they are not their best self and are vastly inexperienced with women IN GENERAL.
There are men out there that are in a relationship that have not been through the trail and error of spinning thousands of plates. They have not taken on the apprenticeship mode of Don Juanism. This and only this will make one extremely proficient with women. And one should never go into a relationship unless they are EXTREMELY proficient at handling women.
We get a lot of questions on this forum like
"My partner is losing interest, how do I gain it back?"
"My girlfriend is acting distant, why?"
"Girlfriend breaks up with me, how do I get her back?"
This shows me that these men lack the much needed proficiency in dealing with women.
For one, if they were good with women they would not need to ask these questions because anyone who IS good with women and HAS gone through the journey realizes these are SILLY questions and how to deal with situations like this are common sense.
When a girl loses interest?
You should not care because you either have many back ups or you've already realized that feigning for a girls interest is a LOST CAUSE. DJ's realize these tenants and thats why you never see an experienced member here ask about these things. They are common sense to the experienced.
My girlfriend is acting distant, why?
Another question commonly asked on the forums here.
She is acting distant because you don't know how to MANAGE her interest levels. You are inexperienced in keeping these levels at their highest peak. Once again, this clearly shows inexperience. And bringing me back to my previous theory: inexperienced men should not be in monogamous relationships until they have GONE THROUGH the journey.
"Girlfriend breaks up with me, how do i get her back?
Probably the most commonly asked question on here.
The fact that you want her back spews inexperience. You are not yet emotionally strong to move on, and accept being by yourself. A man of experience embraces this as a girl who has low interest and a chance to get back out their and sharpen up his game FOR HIMSELF, and get back on that path/narrow-road of perpetual betterment.
A man who isn't able to let a chick walk away from his life clearly shows inexperience, because the experienced man realizes and implements a non-affectivity. The experienced man is OKAY - in fact HAPPY - to be alone.
So if you find yourself asking questions like these or very similar to these, break up with your girlfriend right now.
Its time you take the journey to getting better with women IN GENERAL.
If you are not good with women or inexperienced with them, because you have only been in a couple of relationships, its time to bite the bullet and accept the challenge. You must realize that your not even READY to be in a relationship. You are not emotionally strong enough yet. You haven't been through the trail and error phase of approaching thousands of girls and spinning thousands of plates. At this very moment you are just going with the flow and a prudent man NEVER does that. A prudent man, becomes AMAZING and PROFICIENT at a particular thing before even considering engaging in an activity strictly related to that thing. Thus why put ALL your emotional investment in a girl when you are INEXPERIENCED?
Fundamentally and perpetually heartbroken
This is why so many men get fundamentally heartbroken throughout their life. This is essentially like gambling all your money on a stock before even studying one sentence on how to efficiently play the stock market. You are walking into a vortex of pain and suffering if you are not prepared. Not only that, most men do not learn after the first heartbreak. They just jump to another girl they grow oneitis for, get into another relationship, and never truly go through the path to becoming experienced with women. Thus eventually getting heartbroken again and again, perpetuating a cycle of ignorance and emotional turmoil. Gain the knowledge necessary before jumping into a relationship in which you gamble 100% of your emotions in. If you don't your bound to end up in ruin.
You learn everything else why not learn this?
I find it funny how people will spend hours and hours and hours practicing things like guitar or piano or mathematics or football, but spend no time whatsoever becoming experienced with women even though its a fundamental aspect of life. You would never perform in front of 10'000 people a song on the piano with zero hours of practice. So why would you jump into a relationship with a huge lack of experience?
Break up with your girlfriend and go through the journey
This is the point I am trying to make. Those who are inexperienced and in a monogamous relationship are those playing that piano in front 10'000 people without any practice. Its not smart. You are staking a large part of your emotions on something you are fundamentally sh1t at.
This is why I say, break up with your girlfriend. The time is NOW to get experienced. She will eventually cheat, break up with you, lose interest, jump on another d1ck, and ultimately break your puny heart. Why? because you don't know how to handle women. Its inevitable. So mid as well drop her now and GET ON THAT NARROW PATH TO BEING EXPERIENCED WITH WOMEN. Join the journey, its wholeheartedly worth it. If you don't you will be disappointed for life and wonder what the hell is wrong with you. Doesn't matter how old you are, every man must take this journey.
How to become experienced with women
The most efficient way to becoming experienced with women is this:
The plate spinning phase
Talk to literally every single woman you see. Literally thousands and thousands of women. Get their numbers. Cold approach like a machine. Go on dates with them. BUT DONT GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP. Spin plates. And lots of them. Every man should go through a plate spinning phase.
The trail and error/apprenticeship phase
This is going to be a simultaneous phase with the plate spinning phase. You must go through trial and error. You MUST study ever single technique out there, but don't overload your brain. You want to actually implement the things you read and see what works for you and what doesn't. Thus you "try" the things you read and eradicate the things that "fail" and continue to implement the skills and tactics that "succeed" - Trial and Error. This is where you learn what works and what doesnt and in this phase you grow a strong arsenal of personal tactics and your own DJ way of picking up chicks. This phase fine tunes your Inner and Outer game.
These two phases must be implemented for years. Tirelessly without stop. Its the only way to become proficient. Its like working out. You don't just go to the gym once and get jacked. You go online and read and understand everything there is to know about working out and you go and implement it with a strict plan coupled with determination and over years the transformation will be there. By jumping into a relationship without experience is like going to a body building competition after one bloody workout. It doesn't make fvcking sense.
Getting rejected a million times
During these two phases you want to/and will get rejected thousands and thousands of times. Like a Shaolin Monk jabbing his hands in rice over and over to make his hand numb to the pain, you want to get rejected that many times in order to grow a NON-AFFECTIVITY & NON-ATTACHMENT. You learn to like & embrace rejection. You begin to work around it.
Once you grow this non-affectivity and non-attachment you stop asking questions like the ones stated at the beginning of this post.
I have realized something today.
I have realized that a lot of men on this forum and out in the real world need to break up with their monogamous partner. Why you may ask?
Because they are not their best self and are vastly inexperienced with women IN GENERAL.
There are men out there that are in a relationship that have not been through the trail and error of spinning thousands of plates. They have not taken on the apprenticeship mode of Don Juanism. This and only this will make one extremely proficient with women. And one should never go into a relationship unless they are EXTREMELY proficient at handling women.
We get a lot of questions on this forum like
"My partner is losing interest, how do I gain it back?"
"My girlfriend is acting distant, why?"
"Girlfriend breaks up with me, how do I get her back?"
This shows me that these men lack the much needed proficiency in dealing with women.
For one, if they were good with women they would not need to ask these questions because anyone who IS good with women and HAS gone through the journey realizes these are SILLY questions and how to deal with situations like this are common sense.
When a girl loses interest?
You should not care because you either have many back ups or you've already realized that feigning for a girls interest is a LOST CAUSE. DJ's realize these tenants and thats why you never see an experienced member here ask about these things. They are common sense to the experienced.
My girlfriend is acting distant, why?
Another question commonly asked on the forums here.
She is acting distant because you don't know how to MANAGE her interest levels. You are inexperienced in keeping these levels at their highest peak. Once again, this clearly shows inexperience. And bringing me back to my previous theory: inexperienced men should not be in monogamous relationships until they have GONE THROUGH the journey.
"Girlfriend breaks up with me, how do i get her back?
Probably the most commonly asked question on here.
The fact that you want her back spews inexperience. You are not yet emotionally strong to move on, and accept being by yourself. A man of experience embraces this as a girl who has low interest and a chance to get back out their and sharpen up his game FOR HIMSELF, and get back on that path/narrow-road of perpetual betterment.
A man who isn't able to let a chick walk away from his life clearly shows inexperience, because the experienced man realizes and implements a non-affectivity. The experienced man is OKAY - in fact HAPPY - to be alone.
So if you find yourself asking questions like these or very similar to these, break up with your girlfriend right now.
Its time you take the journey to getting better with women IN GENERAL.
If you are not good with women or inexperienced with them, because you have only been in a couple of relationships, its time to bite the bullet and accept the challenge. You must realize that your not even READY to be in a relationship. You are not emotionally strong enough yet. You haven't been through the trail and error phase of approaching thousands of girls and spinning thousands of plates. At this very moment you are just going with the flow and a prudent man NEVER does that. A prudent man, becomes AMAZING and PROFICIENT at a particular thing before even considering engaging in an activity strictly related to that thing. Thus why put ALL your emotional investment in a girl when you are INEXPERIENCED?
Fundamentally and perpetually heartbroken
This is why so many men get fundamentally heartbroken throughout their life. This is essentially like gambling all your money on a stock before even studying one sentence on how to efficiently play the stock market. You are walking into a vortex of pain and suffering if you are not prepared. Not only that, most men do not learn after the first heartbreak. They just jump to another girl they grow oneitis for, get into another relationship, and never truly go through the path to becoming experienced with women. Thus eventually getting heartbroken again and again, perpetuating a cycle of ignorance and emotional turmoil. Gain the knowledge necessary before jumping into a relationship in which you gamble 100% of your emotions in. If you don't your bound to end up in ruin.
You learn everything else why not learn this?
I find it funny how people will spend hours and hours and hours practicing things like guitar or piano or mathematics or football, but spend no time whatsoever becoming experienced with women even though its a fundamental aspect of life. You would never perform in front of 10'000 people a song on the piano with zero hours of practice. So why would you jump into a relationship with a huge lack of experience?
Break up with your girlfriend and go through the journey
This is the point I am trying to make. Those who are inexperienced and in a monogamous relationship are those playing that piano in front 10'000 people without any practice. Its not smart. You are staking a large part of your emotions on something you are fundamentally sh1t at.
This is why I say, break up with your girlfriend. The time is NOW to get experienced. She will eventually cheat, break up with you, lose interest, jump on another d1ck, and ultimately break your puny heart. Why? because you don't know how to handle women. Its inevitable. So mid as well drop her now and GET ON THAT NARROW PATH TO BEING EXPERIENCED WITH WOMEN. Join the journey, its wholeheartedly worth it. If you don't you will be disappointed for life and wonder what the hell is wrong with you. Doesn't matter how old you are, every man must take this journey.
How to become experienced with women
The most efficient way to becoming experienced with women is this:
The plate spinning phase
Talk to literally every single woman you see. Literally thousands and thousands of women. Get their numbers. Cold approach like a machine. Go on dates with them. BUT DONT GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP. Spin plates. And lots of them. Every man should go through a plate spinning phase.
The trail and error/apprenticeship phase
This is going to be a simultaneous phase with the plate spinning phase. You must go through trial and error. You MUST study ever single technique out there, but don't overload your brain. You want to actually implement the things you read and see what works for you and what doesn't. Thus you "try" the things you read and eradicate the things that "fail" and continue to implement the skills and tactics that "succeed" - Trial and Error. This is where you learn what works and what doesnt and in this phase you grow a strong arsenal of personal tactics and your own DJ way of picking up chicks. This phase fine tunes your Inner and Outer game.
These two phases must be implemented for years. Tirelessly without stop. Its the only way to become proficient. Its like working out. You don't just go to the gym once and get jacked. You go online and read and understand everything there is to know about working out and you go and implement it with a strict plan coupled with determination and over years the transformation will be there. By jumping into a relationship without experience is like going to a body building competition after one bloody workout. It doesn't make fvcking sense.
Getting rejected a million times
During these two phases you want to/and will get rejected thousands and thousands of times. Like a Shaolin Monk jabbing his hands in rice over and over to make his hand numb to the pain, you want to get rejected that many times in order to grow a NON-AFFECTIVITY & NON-ATTACHMENT. You learn to like & embrace rejection. You begin to work around it.
Once you grow this non-affectivity and non-attachment you stop asking questions like the ones stated at the beginning of this post.
