Indifference

[Bingo-Player]

Noobs are often taught as a fundamental that being indifferent is the key too rivers off p!ussy

Where this is true, it only works when you are indifferent BECAUSE you actually are indifferent and not just for her benefit , women can see straight through bulls1it they communicate in it 24 hours a day 7 days a week so the notion of “faking it until you make it” is utter rubbish

So how do you become “indifferent” !?! well it’s a tough job and most men won’t have the balls to do it you need to become completely self dependent forget about women for the time being..... you need your own goals , your own hobbies , rules, interests, styles and tastes and these will take years and years to develop but you will become a better man because of it ......

you have to let go of almost everything you’ve been taught throughout life and yes you are going to upset/offend a lot of people in the process

( the reason most “nice” guys always end up with jack sh1t in life because they never want to upset anyone fvcking yes men)

Being indifferent is all about having your own code , your own rules and a complete confidence to fulfil them regardless of what is trying to influence you otherwise

Think about it like this

Most heros/ villains you see on tv shows ? .......why do women fall weak at the knees for these men ? .....

Its not because they have a different hairstyle or a different dress code to anyone else

Its because these characters aren’t interested in smashing the chicks ......they are there to complete their own agendas save / destroy the world....... the females are merely there to tag along and ride his c0ck when he is stressed

When you finally have your own agenda and a “plan” women will be falling over themselves to get your attention

Women are inherently designed to follow not lead

 

[Bokanovsky]

Being indifferent is all about having your own code , your own rules and a complete confidence to fulfil them regardless of what is trying to influence you otherwise

You can only be indifferent if you genuinely don't care much about the outcome. As a straight male, you can only be indifferent about the outcome with a particular female in one of three possible scenarios:

1. You are not that attracted to her;
2. You have have many other options; and/or
3. Women are not high on your list of priorities in life.

Note that #3 is often, though not always, linked to #2.

 

[Mike32ct]

You can only be indifferent if you genuinely don't care much about the outcome. As a straight male, you can only be indifferent about the outcome with a particular female in one of three possible scenarios:

1. You are not that attracted to her;
2. You have have many other options; and/or
3. Women are not high on your list of priorities in life.

Note that #3 is often, though not always, linked to #2.

Agreed.

However, I think the real challenge for most guys is to try to de-link #2 and #3. Most guys don't have multiple options. But if they can learn to not give a F anyway, it's all the better. They should still TRY with women, but not get hung up on the outcome.

 

[Instinct1978]

Great advice here. Ever notice how easy it is to pick up the woman you are not interested in?

High value or not, sometimes I am just not in the mood for it. Out just trying to watch the game, shoot some pool, etc... Then, next thing you know, you are making sure she didn't leave any personal effects behind in the morning.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Agreed.

However, I think the real challenge for most guys is to try to de-link #2 and #3. Most guys don't have multiple options. But if they can learn to not give a F anyway, it's all the better. They should still TRY with women, but not get hung up on the outcome.

Agreed, though for many men it will be difficult due to something called hormones. The fact that there is major cultural shaming of men who are perceived as not being successful with women does not help either.

 

[Mike32ct]

Agreed, though for many men it will be difficult due to something called hormones. The fact that there is major cultural shaming of men who are perceived as not being successful with women does not help either.

Yes. No doubt.

 

[zekko]

Its because these characters aren’t interested in smashing the chicks ......they are there to complete their own agendas save / destroy the world....... the females are merely there to tag along and ride his c0ck when he is stressed

I disagree that these characters aren't interested in smashing the chicks. If they didn't want to smash the chicks, they wouldn't. But when the mood strikes them, they grab the girl and smash they do. They just take what they want, when they want it.

To me, that's not indifference, that's going for what they want. In fact, I'd say that's the exact opposite of indifference. If they were truly indifferent, they wouldn't even notice the chick, let alone grab her and bang her.

I think indifference is highly overrated around here. Obviously, you don't want to be overeager, needy, or "thirsty". What is more important, IMO, is intent. Guys who intend to bang the chicks will usually bang the chicks long before someone who is indifferent about banging them.

The type of indifference that is most helpful, IMO, is the indifference that is born of having a sh!t ton of options.