In response to the thread attractive women are becoming scarce...(agreed)

[Old Spice]

I agree that attractive women are becoming scarce. As discouraging as this might be, this brings up a great point.

You must take action when you see an attractive woman

Due to the scarcity of attractrive women now, this means you must take action even more frequently and consistently. Use the fact that attractive women are much rarer now to take action and approach the attractive ones the moment you see them.

Just something to think about.

 

[comic_relief]

disagreed, attractive women are not scarce!

There are tons of relationships ending each day and starting each day.

Just because attractive women aren't attracted to the people that b!tch, doesn't mean that they aren't out there.

- comic_relief

 

[Old Spice]

disagreed, attractive women are not scarce!

There are tons of relationships ending each day and starting each day.

Just because attractive women aren't attracted to the people that b!tch, doesn't mean that they aren't out there.

- comic_relief

This is all a matter of opinion anyways, but it is a fact that more women are overweight or generally take less care of their appearance these days. I work in the Fashion/Beauty industry, i am very up to date with this stuff.

not saying you are wrong, just saying the maintinence of women has gone down.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

I only pull hot chicks, for the simple reason that I don´t go for less quality women. I recently "broke up" with a fb... and I wonder when I´ll get an equally attractive woman, because I don´t see many as her... To add to the problem for one hot chick (very rare in 22+), there are 10 tall, buffed, good looking guys... add the Dj´s the club PR, and the chick has many quality guys to chose.... we don´t..

 

[Iceberg]

disagreed, attractive women are not scarce!

There are tons of relationships ending each day and starting each day.

Just because attractive women aren't attracted to the people that b!tch, doesn't mean that they aren't out there.

- comic_relief

I agree.

Actually that was my argument against a pretty girl who was getting too ****y, "Yeah, you're pretty. But a new batch of pretty girls turns legal age every day."

I don't think think that women are any less/more pretty than they were at any era. People are people. And I'm sure every generation of mankind had someone saying "This generation is the worst ever."

 

[JdelaSilviera]

Iceberg, and I´m the first to tell you that your line is brilliant.
We will never reach a consensus, cause the idea of what is hot is different for a lot of us. It also might be that where you live there are a lot of hot girls.

There are a lot of cute faces out there, the problem is that most women are pout of shape, and I´m not like some guys that consider huge asses to be attractive. Most girls don´t have a flat stomach, toned legs and arms, and a round cellullite free, toned butt...

 

[rocket87]

I feel like I'm starting to post this over and over in different threads...

Most attractive, interesting, intelligent, beautiful women are already in solid relationships.

You guys are all misleading yourselves to try and justify a pathetic lack of success.

There are plenty of extremely attractive girls out there. And by plenty, I'm talking in the thousands. Tens of thousands if you're in a big city!! You really can't find one or two to play with every couple days?? Really?

I don't care how high your standards are, where you live, none of that sh!t matters. I live in a old-fart suburb of Chicago where everyone comes to settle down, is 40-50+, has small children, and is focused on their career. The % of <25 year olds here is like 8% and most of them attend the local high school! I would consider my standards extreme (I only go for specific heights, a very certain toned thigh look is important to me, 100% perfect white teeth is a 100% must, wide eye spacing... I even ignore girls with certain hair styles I dislike...) and even considering ALL of that information, there are still plenty of girls everywhere even in my situation! You guys are seriously making excuses. Your continued lack of success will only grow worse if you don't accept this reality.

Also, why would you even post a NEW thread about this? Seriously??

Kind of rings to the idea of people mentioning that half the guys on here are keyboard jockeys with no real plates and spewing sh!t for advice.

Go get out of the house, if you spent less time on here maybe you'd run into some attractive women.

One of the best advice a female ever gave me about game, and yeah, don't take advice from a female, whatever - but it was verbatim:

"Maybe you're just looking in all the wrong places."

Go somewhere new. Try a different gym if you don't like the girls at yours. Figure it out. *****ing on here isn't going to create a bunch of new vag for you to creep all over. So, case in point - Women are not scarce. Disagree. Ridiculous discussion IMO.

Just something to think about.

Instead of wasting your time thinking about something this incredibly lame, think of everything else you could be doing?

 

[AlexDP]

Maybe it's different in Belgium, but I have the feeling girls are becoming more attractive. They are more interested in exercising and more interested in eating healthy than even before. To make things even better, it's usually the smart ones who pay attention to their bodies.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

I feel like I'm starting to post this over and over in different threads...

Most attractive, interesting, intelligent, beautiful women are already in solid relationships.

You guys are all misleading yourselves to try and justify a pathetic lack of success.

There are plenty of extremely attractive girls out there. And by plenty, I'm talking in the thousands. Tens of thousands if you're in a big city!! You really can't find one or two to play with every couple days?? Really?

I don't care how high your standards are, where you live, none of that sh!t matters. I live in a old-fart suburb of Chicago where everyone comes to settle down, is 40-50+, has small children, and is focused on their career. The % of <25 year olds here is like 8% and most of them attend the local high school! I would consider my standards extreme (I only go for specific heights, a very certain toned thigh look is important to me, 100% perfect white teeth is a 100% must, wide eye spacing... I even ignore girls with certain hair styles I dislike...) and even considering ALL of that information, there are still plenty of girls everywhere even in my situation! You guys are seriously making excuses. Your continued lack of success will only grow worse if you don't accept this reality.

Also, why would you even post a NEW thread about this? Seriously??

Kind of rings to the idea of people mentioning that half the guys on here are keyboard jockeys with no real plates and spewing sh!t for advice.

Go get out of the house, if you spent less time on here maybe you'd run into some attractive women.

One of the best advice a female ever gave me about game, and yeah, don't take advice from a female, whatever - but it was verbatim:

"Maybe you're just looking in all the wrong places."

Go somewhere new. Try a different gym if you don't like the girls at yours. Figure it out. *****ing on here isn't going to create a bunch of new vag for you to creep all over. So, case in point - Women are not scarce. Disagree. Ridiculous discussion IMO.





Instead of wasting your time thinking about something this incredibly lame, think of everything else you could be doing?

Most women are out of shape, that´s what this is all about. And no honey, it has nothing to do with lack of success.

BTW most, intelligent and attractive women ARE SINGLE because they are much more picky than average and ugly ones. They even have less guys pursuing them, cause their beauty is intimidating.

 

[rocket87]

Most women are out of shape, that´s what this is all about. And no honey, it has nothing to do with lack of success.

BTW most, intelligent and attractive women ARE SINGLE because they are much more picky than average and ugly ones. They even have less guys pursuing them, cause their beauty is intimidating.

I fully agree that most women are out of shape. And thanks for calling me honey, you turned me on a little there. :woo:


I completely disagree with the second part of this post. It seems like you're living with a skewed reality. You obviously don't realize how often attractive women are approached. Please prove me wrong, if you do, I'll eat my words... but from my experience and observations I watch beautiful women being approached all the time at places I frequent. We're talking 3-10 times a day; especially at the gym! Not to mention if their job involves a lot of interaction with guys (gym/fitness related positions, ANY retail position... aka 75% of young females jobs). Or if they go to school, or take any classes anywhere.. Am I wrong?

I didn't post here to debate any specific phrase or mantra. I did post in this thread to outline that 1. Biotching about lack of success does absolutely nothing and 2. the idea of women "becoming scarce" is absolutely absurd (to which it would seem you are agreeing with my position and simply adding to the debate with the fact that they're there - guys just are not approaching these women.)

 

[Chickfight]

Threads like these are a plague to this forum.

I personally don't agree, I've never had a problem finding attractive women. They are everywhere. I think adopting this mentality is simply a way to validate why you're not getting with any with them, which ironically will get you even fewer attractive women (is fewer than 0 even possible?), since you're putting them on a pedestal. Same afc crap, just in different wrapping.

but let's say for argument sake that you are right and they really are rare. How will it help to view them that way? You'll been so invested in your interaction since you don't know when you'll see another one, coming off as needy and clingy, and when she rejects you it'll be considered a crushing defeat since she's so rare and "special".

Making threads like these is not helping anyone. I'd say 80% of the people who visit this forum are new to this DJ stuff. They don't need to start off on a the foot with a sh!tty ass reality. Remember, an abundance mentality is what makes you attractive, not a scarcity one. Also, an attractive woman does NOT equal a high value woman. It takes time to find that out. I will agree that high value women are harder to find, but then again I feel that most women just need a real, no bullsh!t man, to become a high value woman.

 

[CJ 101]

There's alot of attractive females out there, the reason alot of guys don't meet high quality females is because thses same guys that complain are usually locked in their house pplayin XBox or PS3, if you as a guy want to meet attractive, high quality females then you first have to know where to find them, looking for attractive females at thewrong place is like like trying to fish for a shark at a pond, if you want catch a shark then you have to go to the ocean and nowhere else, I also live in Chicago and downtown Chicago has alot of high class clubs and lounges where you can meet alot of attractive females, there's also alot ofattractive females in bookstores and in the city at large. So let's put our XBox, stop spending time on Facebook and Forums and go out there and talk to these females.

 

[irocknike23]

lol at all the people in doubt "theres thousands of attractive females out there"

i fully agree with this thread.


Sure there's many with pretty faces but have but most have issues in the waist line with some extra baggage....

for me there's no harder turn off than fat around the waist..some is ok but when its hanging that's plain nasty, im atcually someone who prefers body over face...just me

 

[JdelaSilviera]

I fully agree that most women are out of shape. And thanks for calling me honey, you turned me on a little there. :woo:


I completely disagree with the second part of this post. It seems like you're living with a skewed reality. You obviously don't realize how often attractive women are approached. Please prove me wrong, if you do, I'll eat my words... but from my experience and observations I watch beautiful women being approached all the time at places I frequent. We're talking 3-10 times a day; especially at the gym! Not to mention if their job involves a lot of interaction with guys (gym/fitness related positions, ANY retail position... aka 75% of young females jobs). Or if they go to school, or take any classes anywhere.. Am I wrong?

I didn't post here to debate any specific phrase or mantra. I did post in this thread to outline that 1. Biotching about lack of success does absolutely nothing and 2. the idea of women "becoming scarce" is absolutely absurd (to which it would seem you are agreeing with my position and simply adding to the debate with the fact that they're there - guys just are not approaching these women.)

Once again, it has nothing to do with lack of success. I live in a big city and very rarely I see sexy /in shape women.
About my skewed reality, first don´t assume every guy on sosuave is loser/nerd with no life....Now, hot women, might have construction workers saying they are beautiful, guys in the street might whistle, guys in the clubs will do the hungry look, but very very few will approach them, and try something. Telling her she is hot is nothing.
Also, nobody has an ego like a 10, for her only a perfect guy is worth dating... and perfect guys in their views are scarce. But let me tell you, there are a lot more guys with their sh*t together (money,career, looks, mental well being) than women.

Picture the club scene, there is a 6/7 dancing alone, and in the other corner 10. Wich will you approach? most guys will go for 6/7´s, even great looking guys.

And I didn´t say women are becoming scare, sexy women are. Today women, eat and drink more, and the fast food industry is huge.
The results are very noticable when you go to the beach..

I dont´hate women, I´m not frustrated with any lack of success, I just wish there were much more hot women than there are.

 

[Chickfight]

Once again, it has nothing to do with lack of success. I live in a big city and very rarely I see sexy /in shape women.
About my skewed reality, first don´t assume every guy on sosuave is loser/nerd with no life....Now, hot women, might have construction workers saying they are beautiful, guys in the street might whistle, guys in the clubs will do the hungry look, but very very few will approach them, and try something. Telling her she is hot is nothing.
Also, nobody has an ego like a 10, for her only a perfect guy is worth dating... and perfect guys in their views are scarce. But let me tell you, there are a lot more guys with their sh*t together (money,career, looks, mental well being) than women.

Picture the club scene, there is a 6/7 dancing alone, and in the other corner 10. Wich will you approach? most guys will go for 6/7´s, even great looking guys.

And I didn´t say women are becoming scare, sexy women are. Today women, eat and drink more, and the fast food industry is huge.
The results are very noticable when you go to the beach..

I dont´hate women, I´m not frustrated with any lack of success, I just wish there were much more hot women than there are.

Then you should have just titled this thread "people in America are getting fatter" which is true. Girls just get away with some extra pounds easier than men. Chubby guys are not even really in the game.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

Then you should have just titled this thread "people in America are getting fatter" which is true. Girls just get away with some extra pounds easier than men. Chubby guys are not even really in the game.

Yes, but my concern is with chicks, not with men . A lot of girls get laid even if they are obese.

Sosuave and other pua communities, is made for getting super hot chicks, you don´t need game for average women. Average guys have been doing it for thousands of years....