Gen. Cornwallis
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I am a sr. in college, my gf is a jr, and we have been together for about six months. when my gf was in high school she dated a boy for over a year. while they were dating this boy hit her. of course, any self respecting girl would not tolerate this behavior and would end the relationship. she did not, she put up with it. this was a mistake but I can forgive her for that because she was young and in her first LTR.
in my opinion, there is nothing lower than boy who hits women. it is simply unexcusable behavior. it affects the relationship that I have with her becuase I've had to see her cry so many times due to emotional damage inflicted by this abuse. I'm creating this thread because I am extremely bothered that she still talks to this kid. It reflects poorly on her character and makes me think of her as a weak person. I'd expect her to put this kid in her past and never talk to him again. Is this an unreasonable expectation?
I don't bring up her relationship with this kid in conversation because I don't know him and they dated before I even met her. I also don't want to appear jealous or insecure. I almost talked to her about this tonight though because she was sitting next to me going through her phone and I saw that she had several texts from him in her phone. This upset me and I wanted to say something about it but decided to ask the board first.
Thanks for reading. I'm looking forward to hearing what you think about this.
in my opinion, there is nothing lower than boy who hits women. it is simply unexcusable behavior. it affects the relationship that I have with her becuase I've had to see her cry so many times due to emotional damage inflicted by this abuse. I'm creating this thread because I am extremely bothered that she still talks to this kid. It reflects poorly on her character and makes me think of her as a weak person. I'd expect her to put this kid in her past and never talk to him again. Is this an unreasonable expectation?
I don't bring up her relationship with this kid in conversation because I don't know him and they dated before I even met her. I also don't want to appear jealous or insecure. I almost talked to her about this tonight though because she was sitting next to me going through her phone and I saw that she had several texts from him in her phone. This upset me and I wanted to say something about it but decided to ask the board first.
Thanks for reading. I'm looking forward to hearing what you think about this.