In need of help
Hey Guys
I`m extremely picky to start with so when i meet someone I like...it`s pretty amazing...
I met this girl about a month ago...We had just chatted a little on msn...then I asked her to hang out she said she had plans...so I took it with a grain of salt..Kept talking like it was nothing...WAited about 1 week 1/2...beautiful day so I asked her to go hiking cause she had mentionned she loved the outdoors...She agreed...WOW...i`ll admit, like any other guy I *usually* think of sex when i first meet someone...BUT this time, it didnt even cross my mind...we stayed out for about 4 hours and had great time...alot of laughs and we talked about everything..felt very natural....so I come home...do some stuff and a friend msg`s me saying..."good for you, you made a real good impression"....so I guess she talked about me the second she got home...good thing I guess....BUT this time, I decided to take it with a grain of salt... (i`m one of those who like to analyze everything but im getting better)...so the next day..she messages me a few times ..we chat and she tells me she had a great time and looks forward to our next meeting...I tell her I`ll call on Monday...
We end up going to the movies..she drives, I pay, ( 40 year old virgin)...so we laugh alot...talk a little..she asked "what are you thinking about" on the way home and I simply say.." that I had fun"....so decide not to rush anything..tell her I had fun and to have a good night....she goes online when she gets home and msg`s me saying she had fun again and that i should come out to her camp later in the week...OK SO FAR SO GOOD RIGHT...Thursday comes around and no call but it was raining...a whole week goes by..we dont talk...then suddenly i write that im going out on msn and she writes...."that`s too bad, the only time i dont go to that place, you`re going".....i dont reply....Then the next day I write..."I`m taking your dog hiking, you`re welcome to join us" as a joke...that`s all I write...
no response...this is Sunday....At this point..i must admit...starting to go a little crazy but not too much cause I think shes an amazing girl...Then monday i come across your article and felt relived....
I just called her, it had been about 8 days....she got a new job so I asked about it...i was pretty quiet..then she says.." I went to your work today but you werent there"....so then im thinking..ok..we are both playing the game...so i cut it short 15 minutes...shes going out of town fri-sat so I told her if she wanted to hang out Sunday night to give me a call and that was it...
HELP ME...hehe
I think im getting a good vibe but then i get negative and think....what is she is just being polite by saying she has fun with me???
Are we both playing the game???
I followed the rules...made a real good impression when i hung out with..waited a while to call and ended the convo...
Now, of course..all i think of is will she call on Sunday and should I read into it if she doesnt??
I would appreciate any feedback
Thanks a BUnch
Justin
Hey Guys
I`m extremely picky to start with so when i meet someone I like...it`s pretty amazing...
I met this girl about a month ago...We had just chatted a little on msn...then I asked her to hang out she said she had plans...so I took it with a grain of salt..Kept talking like it was nothing...WAited about 1 week 1/2...beautiful day so I asked her to go hiking cause she had mentionned she loved the outdoors...She agreed...WOW...i`ll admit, like any other guy I *usually* think of sex when i first meet someone...BUT this time, it didnt even cross my mind...we stayed out for about 4 hours and had great time...alot of laughs and we talked about everything..felt very natural....so I come home...do some stuff and a friend msg`s me saying..."good for you, you made a real good impression"....so I guess she talked about me the second she got home...good thing I guess....BUT this time, I decided to take it with a grain of salt... (i`m one of those who like to analyze everything but im getting better)...so the next day..she messages me a few times ..we chat and she tells me she had a great time and looks forward to our next meeting...I tell her I`ll call on Monday...
We end up going to the movies..she drives, I pay, ( 40 year old virgin)...so we laugh alot...talk a little..she asked "what are you thinking about" on the way home and I simply say.." that I had fun"....so decide not to rush anything..tell her I had fun and to have a good night....she goes online when she gets home and msg`s me saying she had fun again and that i should come out to her camp later in the week...OK SO FAR SO GOOD RIGHT...Thursday comes around and no call but it was raining...a whole week goes by..we dont talk...then suddenly i write that im going out on msn and she writes...."that`s too bad, the only time i dont go to that place, you`re going".....i dont reply....Then the next day I write..."I`m taking your dog hiking, you`re welcome to join us" as a joke...that`s all I write...
no response...this is Sunday....At this point..i must admit...starting to go a little crazy but not too much cause I think shes an amazing girl...Then monday i come across your article and felt relived....
I just called her, it had been about 8 days....she got a new job so I asked about it...i was pretty quiet..then she says.." I went to your work today but you werent there"....so then im thinking..ok..we are both playing the game...so i cut it short 15 minutes...shes going out of town fri-sat so I told her if she wanted to hang out Sunday night to give me a call and that was it...
HELP ME...hehe
I think im getting a good vibe but then i get negative and think....what is she is just being polite by saying she has fun with me???
Are we both playing the game???
I followed the rules...made a real good impression when i hung out with..waited a while to call and ended the convo...
Now, of course..all i think of is will she call on Sunday and should I read into it if she doesnt??
I would appreciate any feedback
Thanks a BUnch
Justin