In need of advice

FabioM

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I´ve been trying to date this chick that works in the same place as me (in the airport ) but it seems my chances are slowly fading away.

Let me describe the situation first:

This started about one year ago when she worked in the informations of the airport and it was she that started looking at me. I only noticed it after a few glances coming from her because i was very concentrated into my work that i didn´t had time to look at her too.
A few months ago she changed companies and started working doing the same thing as me (we both work in the Lost and Found) but for my rival company. She kept looking at me and i knew that i had to do something to meet her.

That opportunity came one month ago. I was alone in my Lost and Found office and she also was alone in her Lost and Found office in the arrivals area of the airport where we both work. It was about 2 am so there wasn´t anyone there. I had to go inside the terminal which is 2 steps away from both offices (both offices are right beside each other) and there she was doing her work.

I remember that i had stolen her some passengers a couple of hours ago because they flew in a airline that my company does all the handling in the airport but they were in her office wrongly. I told them to come with me for my office so i tought she did understand what i did.
So i went up to her inside the terminal and told her i was sorry for what i did but of course i was joking with it as i had done the right thing and shouldn´t had asked for sorry lol. It was just a way to spoke to her.
We spoke abit, she asked me if i was doing all the night which i thought to me that if she asked me that question then it meant something. I said bye to her and leave.

Somehow I felt i didn´t spoke like a PUA but i think it was enough just to start things going.

Then i went on vacations for two weeks and i have this feeling that her interest slowed down as she doesn´t look at me the amount of times she used too but she does look.

Anyway i spoke with her again yesterday because she went into my office to ask if company "insert name here" was handled by us but she gave more attention to my female colleague, perhaps because my partner gave her an intimidating look the other day and that might mean bussiness for her.

She did smile when i started talking and i went on to check the paper we had with all the airlines we assist and she went too to check the paper. We spoke that i wasn´t with us and that was it. I felt i should have said some joke or something but i just did enough to show her that, that airline wasn´t with us.

She leaved and said thanks but didn´t look at me.

I kept watching her outside because we are always working outside and outside the office but it seems her interest is fading away.

Damm she is sexy as hell, blond, petit, beatifull with a great accent and from what i spoke to her she seems inteligent and knows what she wants. And she works hard. I feel she´s out of my league.

I want her real bad but i feel once again that my game isn´t enough for women and i feel that her interest is fading away. FFs what do women want afterall?

Does this lack of interest means that the game now changed and that it´s me that as to do everything as she already done her part?

She is known for dating a well known portuguese footballer and that for me makes me feel that i´m too insignificant for her and that looks of her at me might have been for her to test her seduction game. Who knows?

I really want to take her for a cofee or something but i was planning to first speak to her sometimes and then make that move.

What i ask to you fellow PUA´s, is what do you think about this? I´m sorry for the long text but i needed to explain all the situation for a better analysis from you and i´m looking for advice and what all her seduction meant.

This isn´t the 1st time i miss out on a hot babe that seduced me (i think i have some topic about it in here) after i spoke to her but god everyone of my friends ****s some babe and i´m here feeling sorry for me.

Do women think i´m something and then get to known another person and get dissapointed and leave?

Wtf do women want afterall?
 

Interceptor

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Restart the conversation.

Smile at her every time she looks at you.

Place the outcome on the back burner for now, just try to enjoy her while she's there.

Many women run Hot and Cold. Get used to it.

Before I forget, here's a paraphrased quote I read somewhere a long time ago.
Read it, and let it really, really sink in.


"For every hot chick that you see, you can bet that there's some dude that is tired of banging her."


There is really, deep down, NO such thing as "Leagues". It is ALL Self Perception.

Start talking to her. She's just a woman.
She farts, sh*ts, pees, picks her nose, etc, etc.
She isn't a Godess, or Queen.

Start talking to her.
Be friendly, but stay sexual. Impart your sexuality.

Don't go in with the Goal of "I want to be Friends with her!"

Rather, "I want to get to know this chick. What's she like?? Is she good enough for me??"



Good luck.

Remember, seduction, attraction, and realtionships with women ARE NEVER, EVER LINEAR.


Stability is an illusion.
Embrace change.
Stay in control of your emotions.
 

lYlasTer

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Remember man, rejection is better than regret. Looking back on all these years, I've forgotten about the girls that rejected me, but I still think about the ones that I never had the balls to ask out.

Seriously reach between your legs. Do you feel balls? If yes, then act like you have them. Ask her out and make progress!
 

FabioM

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It has been a long time since i had balls to meet a chick but this one restarted my will.:rockon:
 
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