In need of Advice from the Seasoned and Wise

[Amazin_Aces777]

Hey Fellas,
As you would suspect am having women problems, I know huh?

Anyways here's my story...I have been reading sites like these to better my game with girls since I was always to intimidated by beautiful women at clubs and such and I would see them with what looked like the most jerk-hole guys or just plain losers. Well I was gifted with good looks but even that it helped in high school that won't work alone on a full-fledged woman so here's my cry. I usually go for drop-dead gorgeous women but this girl is just this petitte little girl with a beautiful face which I usually go for the full pkg. they usually have weight in all the right places ya know.

"The Encounter"
I noticed this cute girl behind me and I heard her laughing with her friends thinking nothing of it I turned around to say hi. She responded well. I then asked her if she knew about the free food afterwards. She said she didn't know. I ran into an old buddy and noticed she had decided to stay. I then walked past her and asked "so are you going?" she said "I don't know" enthusiastically.

"The Meeting"
I thought nothing of it at that point since I didn't check her out fully since her friends were there. She came over closer and I approached a friend I knew that she was talking with and I started talking to her and her two friends. My friend asked me "So are you going to get some pandcakes?" I said "No, I don't like pandcakes." this girl who's name is "Kaila" said "yes! I don't like pandcakes either" and she gave me a high five. I said aloud "is that a club or something?" she said "it is now!" as she leaned forward. More guys came up to say hi to her and I backed off giving her time to talk and started talking with another buddy.

"The Closer"

I noticed she was making her way out so I ended my conversation and headed her way. I said to her as i passed by "It was nice meeting you ladies." and I introduced myself and got their names too. Kaila then looked at her friends and looked at me and said something. Now this is where it gets strange. She laughed and said If you not doing anything on thursday you should meet us at this study group at 7:17 her friends and her were laughing very noticably at this point. I asked "What's so funny?" She said "No, nothing"
I then got directions and looked into her eyes and noticed they were dialated like all hell. She was laughing at most of the things I said and seem to be really enjoying herself. I then asked "So if I get lost is there a number I can reach you at?" She gave me a number. and I exited.

"The next day"
Notice I said she gave A number not HER number. well I tried calling her and I got a voicemail that said her name was "Jill" for crying out loud!! I thought this girl was giving me all the signs and showed very high intereast. If i show up to this study group will she just laugh in my face or is there a simple explantion to getting a wrong number. (like her being too exicted) This girl seemed overly exicted while talking to me and I don't know if that's because she was just laughing at how much fun it was messing with me. Please any advice on how to handle this!!!!

 

[jonwon]

Look.

Go to the study group if you want to study there.

Do not go with the intention of just bumping into a girl, I call this sad behaviour especially when there are tons of other women about.

Anyway why the hell are you worrying about ONE girl?

Go out and game more women FFS.

Also, I would phone again, leave one message and leave it at that!

Worrying about attending some group in the hope of bumping into a chick tells me you have a hell of along way to go.

Start reading the bible! For starters.

Looks mean shi* if you don’t know how to use em and will and can be used against you! By women who will validate there attention ego fix on your looks! It’s a two edge sword, in that don’t worry about some lack of esteem girl, instead get a number or game women that are responsive.

You sounded like one of her many admirers and your going to amplify it by hounding her, sorry do you want me to call you a sad looser now or after you turn up and joining the cue of sad chumps that have hoped to bump into golden puss*.

Anyway if this is rejection don’t take it personal but I see from your post you cant help it, dam you really are at the beginners level.

DON’T EVER WORRY ABOUT REJECTION!!!!!!!!

Read it again, no two women are the same and whilst your wolling in self pity some ugly mother fu**er with no game is having sex with hot women.
And all he did was approach enough of em!


oh and please word your post titles better i feel like some agony aunt replying to this now.

 

[Amazin_Aces777]

That's why I asked so I could hear what I needed to hear No BS. Call it like you see it no need to downplay. And I am grateful for your insight.
By the way though I am playing the field cus I meet a different girl last week but It went to hell. And a week later I'm focused on a new chick I just don't want to be portrayed as a player and girls think I am.

 

[Wyldfire]

Call the number again with the intention of telling the girl you can't make the study group because something came up. If someone answers the phone ask for the girl...it could be a shared phone in a dorm room. If you get voice mail then just say this message is for "girl's name"...this is "your name", we met the other night at "name of the place you met". I can't make it to the study group you invited me to...something came up. You can reach me at "leave your number" if you'd like to discuss why pancakes suck over a cup of coffee and a bagel. See ya around.

She won't know if you actually asked her out or if you were making a joke. If she likes you, she will call you back. If she doesn't, she won't. Either way, you continue to meet people and don't sit around and wait for her to call back, because she might not.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

K, I didn't read the other responses but do what I say anyways. Ok heres what happened. Ok first you need to understand something.. girls don't ask guys out unless they are very uninterested. Her asking you to come to something as a group thing is about as good as it gets because it takes away from any fear of rejection she WILL have. So basically you should goto the study group and make a move. Make it more obvious though. Like you want her number. OR whatever. Basically I'd guess your doing fine just show up.

 

[Amazin_Aces777]

Wow thanks AplhaMale and here I was thinking all was lost but I guess you are right I should just show up and what have I got to lose if she's not there I'm sure plenty of other lucky ladies will be available. anyways thanks. I was thinking that her asking me out was a clear sign of her intereast but wasn't sure but I'll be sure to keep my feet on the ground after all if it don't work out all I have to say is "Next!"

 

[Last Man Standing]

They were laughing because they gave you the time/date of the Homo group meeting, Homo Erect-us!!!!

Why in the hell do you want to study with women??? Is this why you approached her - to study?? NO!!!!!!!!!!!

This is what you get for not taking the lead and determining the schedule of events yourself!! You hesitated all day and waited until the end and thus took what SHE gave you!! Should have got her number when she was isolated!!