Just need a little advice here.
New girl starts at work and I can tell by her flirty eyes she's interested. I let her dangle a while (months) but we finally start hanging out. First hangout is chatting at her place (opposite couches). Good conversation.
Went on a date a bit later and went back to her place after. We ended up with some light kissing and called it a night. We continue to hangout very frequently to the point I'm at her place 2-3 days in a row. Sex a couple of times. She's constantly texting/calling etc.
I bring up a relationship as I do like this girl and get the "I'm not ready." We have sex the next day and continue to hangout. So she's very hot and cold.
Later in the week I get the "I'm overwhelmed." I proceeded to get drunk and send a bunch of stupid texts and calls. I apologized in person which she accepted but she iterates she just wants to be friends after the stupid text bombing. I go NC for a week but then send a text saying we should talk. She responds a day later saying their isn't anything to talk about.
NC for another week and I get a text saying she's sorry for the way things turned out. We talk and I say we're just going to play it cool for awhile.
Now, I do like this girl, but I've been back and forth with girls in the past with good and bad results. She's got a ton of friends and is always super happy and outgoing so I don't 100% think it's loneliness. I know the response might be "she's fvcking another dude" but I really don't think that's the case either since we spent so much time together it wouldn't have been possible.
Just looking for some advice from others that have been down this path.
New girl starts at work and I can tell by her flirty eyes she's interested. I let her dangle a while (months) but we finally start hanging out. First hangout is chatting at her place (opposite couches). Good conversation.
Went on a date a bit later and went back to her place after. We ended up with some light kissing and called it a night. We continue to hangout very frequently to the point I'm at her place 2-3 days in a row. Sex a couple of times. She's constantly texting/calling etc.
I bring up a relationship as I do like this girl and get the "I'm not ready." We have sex the next day and continue to hangout. So she's very hot and cold.
Later in the week I get the "I'm overwhelmed." I proceeded to get drunk and send a bunch of stupid texts and calls. I apologized in person which she accepted but she iterates she just wants to be friends after the stupid text bombing. I go NC for a week but then send a text saying we should talk. She responds a day later saying their isn't anything to talk about.
NC for another week and I get a text saying she's sorry for the way things turned out. We talk and I say we're just going to play it cool for awhile.
Now, I do like this girl, but I've been back and forth with girls in the past with good and bad results. She's got a ton of friends and is always super happy and outgoing so I don't 100% think it's loneliness. I know the response might be "she's fvcking another dude" but I really don't think that's the case either since we spent so much time together it wouldn't have been possible.
Just looking for some advice from others that have been down this path.