In a relationship

[Stick&Move]

but a girl near my job likes me.What should I do? I knew she liked me cause of the way she made eye contact with me, I wasn't sure until her coworker brought it to my attention. I asked her for her number and she didn't even hesitate to give it to me.How should I handle the situation. I'm in a ten year relationship btw.Any tips? Thanks

 

[Plutoman]

Uhh, don't cheat?

My two cents. If you're in a committed, exclusive relationship, I wouldn't cheat. Just tell her you have a girlfriend and enjoy what you have.. unless you want out, in which case, break up before sleeping with the other girl.

 

[Uncharted]

10 years? That's a massive commitment. If you are still interested in the 10y thing, don't go out with this other chick.

If you have your doubts, then by all means take her out - you deserve a happy life. But if that's the case, then stop dragging along this other chick - I'm assuming she will be thinking long-term (marriage,kids,etc) at some point.

But remember that you are gambling away that 10y chick. If your girlfriend finds out that you went out with another chick one-on-one, she will flip. It's not like you are just casually dating someone else.

 

[self-respect]

Can't be much of a relationship if every time you get eye-fcked by a chick it makes you question tossing it aside. Figure out what you want to do and whether you're okay with hurting the girl in your 10 YEAR relationship a lot, in which case you might also want to break it off cause her trust's obviously in the wrong place.

LTR's are conscious decisions where you know you can be fcking other pu$$y but want to stay with the girl you have for whatever reasons you find important. No one's forcing you to be with her so if you want to stick your d!ck elsewhere, leave and be free to do what you want instead of having her depend on you. Every guy gets interest from other girls when they're already taken. Yours isn't a special situation.