Please, I need your advise on how to make my relationship with my girlfriend worth making us longing for each other.
My girlfriend and I used to date and broke up 3 years ago, but now we are making up again after 3 years.
When we broke up, we do not have a fight, but I was the one that initiated the break-up because I thought our communication was not moving the way I wanted it to be. I was at fault because I ever really discuss what I am feeling about the issue with her. I do always try to be Mr. Nice guy while dying with emotional bottle-up.
During our break-up period, we used to maintain impromptu shout out to each other. Now that we are back again. I do recall telling her that I am back for good, matured and want to marry her as my wife. We have been communicating, if I send her a blackberry message or she saw my miss call, she would respond with blackberry message that she misses my call and apologized. I have asked her to help me get somethings for my mum, in which she did. Likewise, she do cook for me in her apartment when I go there when am returning from work. We have gone on date with her friend twice and we have fun together. I do call her every 2 days and the day I do not call I sent sms to ask her how she feels or doing.
Recently, am seeing a fall in her responding to my calls and acknowledging my sms's. If she eventually pick my calls, she do give me excuse that she is not with her phone or she has been busy. For instance, I last spoke to her on Sunday night after numerous call to her phone and calling her friend if she was alright. She told me that she was not with her phone all the period I called. My problem is that when she sees my call, why can't she send an sms or call back messages to acknowledge them. I didn't call her yesterday, but only send her sms and today, I tried calling in the morning and afternoon, but she neither respond or acknowledge.
Now, am deciding not calling again, but would check on her on my way home or any other day. I am not going to call again till I see her face to face and I express my mind that I appreciate someone acknowledging my call. Is this okay?
Please, how can I develop this relationship to be worthwhile for two of us without being a wussy? How can I see her heart through her eyes? This is someone I want to marry and she knows. I want to make it work.
Why is that I found it easy to communicate freely with ladies I don't want to marry?
Please, I need your in-depth advise and steps I need to take. I am ready to make this work and try.
My girlfriend and I used to date and broke up 3 years ago, but now we are making up again after 3 years.
When we broke up, we do not have a fight, but I was the one that initiated the break-up because I thought our communication was not moving the way I wanted it to be. I was at fault because I ever really discuss what I am feeling about the issue with her. I do always try to be Mr. Nice guy while dying with emotional bottle-up.
During our break-up period, we used to maintain impromptu shout out to each other. Now that we are back again. I do recall telling her that I am back for good, matured and want to marry her as my wife. We have been communicating, if I send her a blackberry message or she saw my miss call, she would respond with blackberry message that she misses my call and apologized. I have asked her to help me get somethings for my mum, in which she did. Likewise, she do cook for me in her apartment when I go there when am returning from work. We have gone on date with her friend twice and we have fun together. I do call her every 2 days and the day I do not call I sent sms to ask her how she feels or doing.
Recently, am seeing a fall in her responding to my calls and acknowledging my sms's. If she eventually pick my calls, she do give me excuse that she is not with her phone or she has been busy. For instance, I last spoke to her on Sunday night after numerous call to her phone and calling her friend if she was alright. She told me that she was not with her phone all the period I called. My problem is that when she sees my call, why can't she send an sms or call back messages to acknowledge them. I didn't call her yesterday, but only send her sms and today, I tried calling in the morning and afternoon, but she neither respond or acknowledge.
Now, am deciding not calling again, but would check on her on my way home or any other day. I am not going to call again till I see her face to face and I express my mind that I appreciate someone acknowledging my call. Is this okay?
Please, how can I develop this relationship to be worthwhile for two of us without being a wussy? How can I see her heart through her eyes? This is someone I want to marry and she knows. I want to make it work.
Why is that I found it easy to communicate freely with ladies I don't want to marry?
Please, I need your in-depth advise and steps I need to take. I am ready to make this work and try.
