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Aiken_Drum

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With DJing skills, you must train them every day for the best results. But who of us do this?
Acomeplished DJs probably do because it is natural for them now, but for people that still aren't a DJ like me, that's not the case. Or maybe I should say I didn't because today I promised myself that from now on I would make conversation with strangers (with a focus in women of course) every day.
What was my normal schedule for DJing? I went out on a saturday night on a club with friends & approach girls there. Sometimes I got some, sometimes not, but they were all kino pick ups. I still get nervous when talking with girls. So normally I would approach girls at my college about once a week when I felt very confident.
Now I decide I would do it everyday.
I'm telling you guys should try this too, seems like a very good idea.
Make a commitment to yourself and the board to approach at least one stranger every day. If you are just beginning you can try with men too, but don't kiss close them, that just plainly gay allright
?

Also, find another are of your life that needs work and acomplish something there too.
For me it is college, I've been doing very bad and changed my career (to pharmacy, so if you guys need morphine, send me a msg in a couple of years
) so I need to study LOTS or I'll lose a full year, which would suck all the way down to hell (??).
I decided I would study everyday at least for an hour, which may not seem like much, but to me would be a 3000 % change.

So start doing this today, start approaching strangers & making small talk to them & find something else that you need improvement with and post your results here with me & we'll comment on each other's accomplishments OK? Don't force yourself to number close them yet, that will come with practice. But if you find a girl your really connect with or some very cool guy, ask them for their numbers.
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Hi Aiken_Drum,
you are certainly right with what you are saying. But I do have the proble, that every "normal" day goes like a scheme.
I stand up, go the bus, sit next to the same guy since 9 (!!!) years, leave the bus, go to school the same route, are hanging out in the school with the same people ......
It's is really diffucult to approch anyone in a situation like this.
In a club you feel good, you like the music, the chicks often want to be approched and flirt ...
In the school everybody is there because he has to be there, and everybody has his groups/friends with whom he hangs out ...
And even worse: If you do or say something stupid it takes only 2 hours before it knows the whole school and abput 20 people (no kidding) are confronting you with what you done ... I do not really like the imagination of 100 people talking about my approches and stuff. I hope you see the difficulties here ..

Perhaps I should just concentrate approching chics putside the school and beging from 0 when I begin to study?
 

~UnDisputed~

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Originally posted by Aiken_Drum:
If you are just beginning you can try with men too, but don't kiss close them, that just plainly gay allright
?
WTF?

what you said was just "plainly gay"



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If you have settled into a routine; CHANGE IT!

If you carry on doing what you've always done you'll carry on getting what you've always got.

Girls in school/college want to be approached. 90% of the time. When they don't they usually aren't worth your time anyway. Don't fool yourself with excuses, females like talking to people, be the person that they talk to. If you do something stupid, so ****ing what? if everybody starts talking about it, laugh it off.

According to the 48 laws of power you should court attention at all costs. If people are talking about you, show them it doesn't phase you. Then talk to MORE girls.

Pow.
 

Aiken_Drum

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Originally posted by ~UnDisputed~:
WTF?

what you said was just "plainly gay"

I said approach guys for making friends, I never said it was only about approaching girls.
Most AFCs are so shy they can't talk to any stranger, particularly girls, but males are also a problem.
 
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